wats the prob here ?

Question

after my 10grade .iam in my 11th grade which means highschool ..but here my life has totally chnaged .... there r no frnds at this college .. its been 4mnths since i have come to this college.... n as far as i remember i cried almost everyday of these four mnths ... i feel completely lost .. when i was in 10th ... i had really good frnds . thats was why i had soo much confidence in maself . now here i have no fnrds .no1 to take my side ..no1 to stick around with .. i have no confidence at all .. as these two yrs are very crucial .. i think that iam wasting my time in crying n shud study ... but then i think wats the need of studying good when there r no frnds to appreciate n party around .. or even to study with ..!!!!!i sit alone in the class ..other ppl sit in gorups with their frnds ... i pass my break with just passing aorund sum comments or gossips with sum ppl .. but later at home .. i feel agian depressed for this reason ..NO FNRDS .!!! HELP ME PKZ

Answer 1

Have you tried approaching people? I know approaching people can be scary but whats worse? surly you have seen certain groups having fun. Pick out someone and approach them & suggest you go to a movie or grab some burgers after class. Try not to get your feelings hurt if they cant. Maybe they have plans already, Maybe they arent intrested. Try it a couple times. Exchange phone #s. Most people are scared to approach people. The diffrence between them & you is they already know people, you dont. wich is worse? Feeling slightly embarresed by approching someone. or Crying in your books every day? Good luck. Use some of that old confadince, you can do it!