Why would a man call up a woman and tell her he's "hungry" for her and he has been thinking about her for days, the look of her face, just being with her? Is he only trying to get some, or is he really going nuts without her around? He also says things to her like he wants a future, and when he finds out certain things that certain people have done to her, he wants to "defend" her. Guys, what is up with you? Especially the foreign ones. WHy don't you just come out with it already and say your feelings in words instead of these complex little coined phrases?
2006-11-18 23:53:54 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Well, first of all, every woman is a mystery to men. I am a woman and realise that.
Personally, i wouldn't even look at a guy who "comes out with it" and says something like "i like your body, let's have sex". Besides physical qualities, chemistry and complementarity in bed, a man needs to be able to express his feelings in more than two words. We don't live in caves anymore, a rudimentary vocabulary doesn't cut it anymore.
Even if most men's intentions are resumed to those three letters, we should at least give them the credit for trying to put it into a more delicate way. But hey, that's just me!
2006-11-19 02:50:21 · answer #1 · answered by LoreCore 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because most men are too conditioned to NOT say what they really think, feel or want, expecially when it comes to woman. that being the case...most men don't know HOW to articulate their thoughts or feelings, so they use those stock phrases (often found in cheesey romance novels) to say that they are unable to say in their own words. ALSO most men have been taught that their own words are ALWAYS the wrong words and that if they DON"T put things in those little coined phrases, women won't understand what they are trying to say.
And there are some that have had nothing but trouble for trying to put things in their own words with regard to what they feel, what they thing oar what they want and tend to use those phrases for the sake of expediency.
And some of us just don't say anything anymore...too confused to be able to find anything to say at all...
2006-11-19 09:16:08 · answer #2 · answered by kveldulf_gondlir 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
BECAUSE a gentleman is unable to talk about his
real feelings. That's the point. You cannot change a man.
You should try to read between the lines. And try to arrange...
That's all. A man is always careful with his sayings if he talks about feelings --- HIS feelings!!! We can talk too... but a man is always afraid of being hurt... Not by the woman --- first --- but by other men.
Never be a witness (ear witness) if two or more "good old friends" talk about women, especially about You and women You know very well --- You will not trust Your ears anymore. And You will spit out or vomit about that what You just overheard....
Well, that's it: Aaron
2006-11-19 09:09:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
That really(TO ME) sound a bit on the weird side.. If I were you, I would NOT go out with him but.. BUT.... be cordial to him but absolutely non-committal. I would say that your boyfriend would not be happy if she went out with him and that you love your boyfriend.. Do not be nasty to him because he does sound a bit unstable.
2006-11-19 08:24:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
O' it's against the MAN rules
2006-11-19 08:05:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋