hi , i wish to ask you guys about tips in choosing a life partner.
Is similar profession necessary, i am from health care profession, would there be any issues if I choose media professional say a journalist?
Also how much importance is the height between couples , is there any adverse effect if my potential partner is 9 inches short?
i know it depeneds on person to person. Those who are couples here , or who have experienced this type of dilema your insight would be helpful .
2006-11-18 23:28:13 · 6 answers · asked by kimk 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
sucks to work with the person you are married to. You see them 24/7. Not much to talk about after work, because each of you already knows what happened. The height thing has no bearing. I am only 5"...my daughter swears 4'11"...but I have almost ALWAYS dated guys who were no less than 6'3". I never planned that, it just happens. My current husband is only 5'10" and the guy that wants me after we divorce, if we do, is only like 5'8". You need to look at common interests, common goals, morals, but mostly you just need to see if you can picture yourself with this person 30 or 40 years down the road.
2006-11-19 03:10:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, a similar profession isn't a necessity, it may be a disadvantage. Same with the height, it isn't important unless one of you makes it an issue.
What is important is work stability, is the person able to hold a job and not get into trouble. How do they get on with the customers and their work colleagues? Shift work may be a problem, it really depends on the person.Just because one of you doesn't work shifts now doesn't mean you won't?
In the case of being married to a journalist or media professional, you have a confidentiality clause in your contract, so stick to it. After all, a journalist wouldn't disclose a source to you, would he?
2006-11-18 23:51:37 · answer #2 · answered by Bad bus driving wolf 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
with mine, we worked together and did the same thing. the only upside to that is that we had something in common when we talked about work. now that we broke up it is increasingly difficult to work with him. i think i have to find another job.
if you have two different professions then you end up learning something new everytime you discuss your jobs.
and i will always have a huge height difference between me and whoever my partner is because i am less than 5 feet tall. really i don't care i never saw how it made a difference.
but what i really think is that if you love someone, height and their profession shouldn't matter.
2006-11-18 23:32:57 · answer #3 · answered by pikachu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everything you ask is trivial. Sounds like you are looking for excuses to NOT marry and if that is the case, you should NOT marry.
2006-11-18 23:31:42 · answer #4 · answered by sweetnessmo 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if your partner is 9 inches short i would be worried that you might sit on them.
2006-11-18 23:30:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
not really... its who you love and feel you are created for... all those other things just even out.
2006-11-18 23:31:00 · answer #6 · answered by israeli_stuck_in_usa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋