we have been thinking alot about having a threesome. enough to where its gonna happen. we just dont know with who yet. hope this dont hurt us.any suggestions?
2006-11-18 22:47:24 · 12 answers · asked by billy b 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
In my opinion this will DEFINITELY hurt your relationship. If you both are interested in sleeping with another than neither of you is satisfying the other. It may sound exciting or even enticing to spice things up in that way. But, after it's over you will both either feel regret or worse, the urge to add more and more people to your bed. What you have is a marriage. A marriage is sex, love and devotion between TWO people. And two people only. If you truly "love her to death" do not entice her with or share her with other men. It will only lead to trouble, hard feelings and STD's. If you both truly want to sleep with other people than neither of you are marriage material.
2006-11-19 03:18:10 · answer #1 · answered by SchrodingersTigress 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Share Your Wife
2016-10-03 04:39:08 · answer #2 · answered by cadejuste 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its called a swinger, and if both of you agree on this make sure its with someone you can trust. There are swingers clubs in just about every city and maybe that should be something you both look into. It could hurt your marriage but some say it brings you closer together. Its not wrong if you both agree, just be careful in choosing the other partner.
2006-11-19 04:03:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Amazing how responders seem to accept the
idea that u mention, as for if it is wrong, I will
not judge , however I thought marriage was
between two(2) people especially in the sex de-
partment, because when you take the vow it
only involves 2 parties. So if u want to do it with
3 or 4 or 5 go ahead, it just shows how many
people really don't take marriage seriously any-
more.
2006-11-19 11:36:50 · answer #4 · answered by RudiA 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It seems you have a lot of doubts about this. Maybe you should really discuss the reason you want to do it. If you already have problems in the marriage and are trying to fix them this way, that may not work. If you are just horny and want to experience more-but your marriage is very solid- then go for it.
2006-11-19 00:21:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well lemme tell ya. I've had 3 somes, 4 somes and more somes in my younger days. But never with the one I truely loved. When you love someone you want them for you. Not you and whoever else happens to come along. You just don't share the one you love. When I lay down to sleep with my woman I wanna feel the closeness of one and one makes one. Not one and one and another. But thats just my opinion. To each his own.
2006-11-18 22:56:15 · answer #6 · answered by Justa_Honay_Guy 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
ummm.. hmmm... well if I were you I would proceed slowly. You might want to think about soft swinging before jumping in with both feet (i.e. everything but intercourse with the third party). Once you reach the point of no return you may look back on it with regret. At least soft swinging allows you to 'dabble' in your curiosities before taking a bigger step..
2006-11-20 23:16:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its called swinging. Look it up on the net. And no its not a bad thing. I have friends who swing and they are the best people in the world and have a wonderful marriage. swinglifestyle.com is where they look for thier partners. Be safe!
2006-11-18 22:54:57 · answer #8 · answered by tigerbaby322006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My hubby and i have talked about it also, He said he didn't think he could watch another man touch me. So its whatever you can handle..You may go thru some jealousy,and some other emotions, But if your marriage is healthy and full of trust then go for it..Good Luck
2006-11-18 23:16:19 · answer #9 · answered by Shem 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You mentioned you hoped it doesn't hurt the two of you. If it's even a remote possibility, then don't do it. Some fantasies are best left as just that: fantasy.
2006-11-18 23:08:49 · answer #10 · answered by LilRedHrdGrl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋