Could this be medical?

Question

my bf is 19 and hasn't had sexual intercourse as of present. He says he has a problem orgasmining and ejaculating, and its so bad the majority of times he'd give up on masturbating and try showering or let it go away by itself. he said the only time he really orgasms and ejaculates is when he as wet dreams, which are infrequent and he hasn't had one since summer anyway. we wer fooling around yesterday, and he could not achieve an orgasm after nearly 10 minutes, so he eventually stopped me. he doesn't have a problem with staying erect though. i can understand that having me there could have probably caused some anxiety but i don't get why he won't when he's masturbating. do u think there could be a medical problem or just something we need to work on...or could it be psychological or what not?

Answer 1

What kind of stress is happening in his life? A 19 year old is at his prime and if he can 't get off masturbating something isn't right. I would find out what stress is going on. If there is not anything important enough to to suffer through ED (erectile dysfunction), there might be a prostate problem or something to do with the urinary tract.

Also, one thing can lead to another. If there is emotional problems it could affect his sexual performance. If it is medical, and can't or won't talk to about it, it might cause a psychological problem. One problem might beget another.

I wish you guys the best of luck! This should be one of the happiest time of your life!

Answer 2

it is a bit abnormal but how ever it might just be from him wanking too much or maybe he just needs to live out a more erotic scene from his imagination, what turns him on or just a dildo up the rear pipe always works

Answer 3

eat a healthier diet stop eating so much sugar eat more vegetables raw avacadoes and brocolli are good to have in his diet.

Answer 4

go and cusult the docter then the rest