we were friends for 8 yrs and all of a sudden he just stopped talking to me. we havent met each other but our bonding was very strong.
2006-11-18 21:05:27 · 21 answers · asked by tanya_mittal44 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
MAY TIRED FROM SUCH LONG ASSOCIATION WITHOUT ANY RESULT.
2006-11-18 22:48:15 · answer #1 · answered by RAMAN IOBIAN 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If a close friend of mine stop talking to me, I would try my best to get to speak to them again. Then ask them, if any thing is wrong? If they refuse to talk, then I would give them some space. Maybe they are going through some trial right now. Or like the other person said, "they met someone new". Some one who is right there for them. Some one they can see in the flesh.
I really hope that things work out for you. This person will come to their senses and realize they need to talk again to you. Good friends are hard to find these days, don't give up. But if the wait is too long, I would just try my best to be strong, and move on.
2006-11-19 05:16:38 · answer #2 · answered by woman of steel 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suggest you request to see him alone and ask him why. For him to just stop cold like that would suggest that he might have received some negative information. If you have not done anything to deserve it you should have no problem setting things straight.
At the same time you might want to take a second look at the validity of his friendship. A true friend would have at least given you the benefit of an explanation.
2006-11-19 05:15:06 · answer #3 · answered by Robere 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
there may be 3 reasons for it.
1). might be something is wrong with him or he might be busy or might be facing some problem , so due to some tension he might not be able to talk to you
or
2). he might have started loving you and might be feeling shy or might be thinking that he is wrong who is thinking so.
or
3). sorry to say that he is not your friend as friends dont stop talking suddenly without any reason.
dont blame him. just try to find out the truth on talking him directly to the point and asking him the reason for not talking to you.
hope you gain him back. all the best.
2006-11-19 05:28:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
My friend
I had a chat with my old school friend on the net today. I had believed in my past years that I was the chosen "one" and he knew about it and would help me out. Talking to him, I felt this great surge of excitement as I always do when talking to him. And as soon as I stopped talking to him, I crashed into a low, as I always do after I talk to him. This had been hounding me, I had been trying to find answers to why this happens. I'm not bipolar.
I realized that in my earlier days with him, I used to believe that he'll solve all my problems for me, he'll help me fight the "war". Only, I also believed that my parents were to blame for all my problems and they were trying to reduce me into this nothingness. I believed that "they" will never let me or anyone be "free". I realized that these thoughts came back to me when I was talking to my friend and I started getting excited talking to him as if I'm going to win the "war", but since nothing of that sort took place, and my parents were succeeding in gettin me "down", I went into a low as soon as I stopped talking to him.
So now I have to be careful either while talking to him or make a decision to stop talking to him altogether if I felt the same way. He was the coolest person in those days of mine, atleast I believed that. Now, he's a good guy, extremely intelligent and lively, but my own thoughts are betraying me. This is more because the stopping of clonazepam has brought back my hallucinations and nightmares.
2006-11-19 05:18:33 · answer #5 · answered by Krishna 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
well i think you shoudl talk to your frnd about it .
he may not tell you straight why he is ignoring you but you will have to be patient and find out what is wrong !
try to sort it out if its in your control !if not give your friend sometime and he will come back because best friends can never be replaced !
even if he is seeing someone else you will always be important to him !
he may be preoccupied with some crisis ! try to help him out ! guys usually seclude themselves when they are in trouble because they dont like asking for help !
be there for him and im sure everythign else will be fine !
take care
all the best
2006-11-19 06:08:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should talk to him face to face and ask the reason. If he give you any ans then solve your problem if not then give him some time because you said your bonding was very strong. Hope you both understand each other.Best of luck....................
2006-11-19 05:34:35 · answer #7 · answered by black_uudee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your friend has a reason that stopped talking to u. sth annoyed him/her. wait for a week to c what happens, maybe sth will change. then write an sms asking if sth is wrong and that u still want to b friends, and if he/she doesnot reply, write a letter evaluating your 8 year friendship. say u did what u could to save the friendship, and she knows where to find if she changes her mind.....
2006-11-19 05:08:21 · answer #8 · answered by elenitsa!!!! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
herez the thing:
1) u were frns n didn't meet EVER (i'm guessin)- this makes u acquaintances nt frns...
2) if hez jus not talkin why waste time... move on honey... he clearly has...
3) n if we for a second assume that he is ur frnd n u had a 'connection' he'll probably *** crawlin back to u... if he doesn't let it be... moreover if u really call him ur friend u need to recheck the defn of frns... friends do not just leave...
2006-11-19 05:17:03 · answer #9 · answered by ms.curious 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
just try to lok for any misunderstandina beetween you. no problems could be solved without discussin the issue. and remember jo hai woh hamesha rahege aur jo nahi hai woh kabhi nahi hoga . all the best.
2006-11-19 07:06:18 · answer #10 · answered by tech savvy 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
dont worry about it. i went through the same thing when i was in school. i was speaking to three guys, one of which i still speak with today. one of the guys was/is a dj and through promoting through email is how i got to talking to him. we were speaking constantly for over two yrs then right after i met him in person, there was all this talk in school saying that i had spoken with him that night but that he tried to get away from me as soon as he could. i couldnt believe what they were saying, and so to clear it up once and for all, i asked him myself. he told me what had happened, which is what i thought happened, and the rumour by the girl was that my best friend had told her. i knew my best friend wouldnt do such a thing as to say that, and my best friend came with me when i went to meet him, but unfortunately the damage was already done. i was speaking to him a lot less than we used to speak and i lost my friends along the way because of what had happened. i did get new friends which im glad because it helped me realise that those girls who were my friends werent really my friends. it got to the point where i wasnt speaking to the dj guy at all. last time i chatted to him, he said he had forgotten what i looked like and wanted to meet up. nvr did that. soon after, i made friends with this guy who i would talk to online, and a while later he gave me his number. i would speak to him about all these things, like he was my friend. last yr was my hsc yr at school and i would constantly chat with him through msging and online, then one day i called him and spoke with him and i havnt really spoken with him since. i contacted him last new years and he didnt even know who i was. a couple of yrs ago i chatted to this guy heaps and he gave me his number and i hav bn msging and chatting to him ever since. i see him as a really good friend of mine, and he's the only friend who replys to my messages whenever i send one. we've spoke over the phone too. we havnt met each other but have seen pics of each other.
after telling you about my experiences i guess what im trying to say is that there are some people who we really click with but after a while we drift apart from, partially because we have other things getting in the way, but a real friendship is a friendship that can withstand all those things regardless of the things we go through. personally, i think that it's time that you move on with your life and find someone else you could bond with
2006-11-19 05:59:49 · answer #11 · answered by kristyb872001 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋