How can you tell if you are a lesbien or bisexual? I'm only 17 and I find myself more attracted to chicks than guys these days. I've had sex with guys before and sort of fooled around with a girl once. Does having these feelings make me bisexual or is it normal to feel this way?
2006-11-18 18:55:24 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
There is one girl that I'm particularly fond of.
2006-11-18 18:57:10 · update #1
I just posted a question similar to yours except im only 15. I have a bf but im attracted to my best friend who is a girl and i know is bi. If you think your more in to guys but also girl than you maybe bi. I would say you should just experience and then evaluate yourself.
2006-11-18 19:02:00 · answer #1 · answered by denquida 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know growing up is all about finding yourself and figuring things out but it is indeed a process and takes time. Don't be in a rush to label it. It's not the label that matters in the long run anyway. I'm about the same age as you and I guess I had a much easier time with this. I came out to everyone in SIXTH grade and believe me people didn't understand that and said I would change. In fact people still might not take you seriously at 17. But I haven't changed and I know I'm exclusively attracted to women. I might like a guy one day but I would never be able to have sex with him....
But anyway, sexuality isn't black and white. there's lots of gray in between. You don't have to be gay or striaght. And there's so many degrees to bisexuality. But go with you like, you know?
2006-11-19 04:02:05 · answer #2 · answered by Polo Panda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will know for sure in time. You're young so play the field. If you are only attracted to women you're a lesbian. Just because you've had sex with guys doesn't make you bisexual. Maybe you were only trying them out. More than likely if it's the "chicks" you dig, you're gay. Enjoy it. Good luck.
2006-11-19 03:04:37 · answer #3 · answered by just jenn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a very common question that is asked. A really good place to find out about this is:
http://www.pflag.org/Frequently_Asked_Questions.comingout_faq.0.html#8
Just scroll down to How Does Someone Know They Are Gay, Lesbian or Bisexual.
2006-11-19 03:23:11 · answer #4 · answered by ncamedtech 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, honor what you are. Why worry about putting some label on it?
Second, at your age you're still finding out who you are. You do that by having experiences and finding out how you feel about them. You'll sort it out eventually. No need to get in knots about it.
2006-11-19 03:49:28 · answer #5 · answered by Luis 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, there is no such thing as "normal." Sexually speaking, I think that humans (and other animals) are bisexual. Now, there are degrees of bisexuality ranging from "heterosexual" to "homosexual." I think that you love who you love, regardless of what sexuality you think you are. I wouldn't worry about it too much--just do what feels right.
Just my two denarii.
2006-11-19 03:09:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go all the way with a girl, see how you like it.
after if your only attracted to woman you may be gay,otherwise if both sexes are attractive to you and you want both i would say you are bi.
i am bi,best of both worlds hunny!!
2006-11-19 06:32:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋