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It seems that when a guy is intrested in me I feel like I have to like him back so he will be my friend. How do you let a guy know you just wanna be friends when he wants more? Im afraid they won't want to be just friends and not talk to me anymore.

2006-11-18 18:53:34 · 12 answers · asked by just me 3 in Family & Relationships Friends

12 answers

First of all if you no right from the start he likes you,why try to be his friend.when you no he likes you.Guys don't no how to be just friends with a female.Everything is sex with them.

2006-11-18 19:04:00 · answer #1 · answered by Teenie 7 · 0 0

The easiest way is to make up a pretend boyfriend or say you're a lesbian. You can also tell them they're like a brother to you... that sends the message pretty well sometimes but not always. Honesty is the best way to go.

Unfortunately, when we tell a guy we only want to be friends at the start of a new friendship they will often pursue this as more of a challenge. Also, they don't usually take us seriously. I think in their minds if one day you only want to be friends, what about next week?

If you're able to give clear boundaries in the beginning you shouldn't run in to this too much. If they very clearly understand that you are only interested in their friendship, they are less likely to pursue a relationship. This, obviously, doesn't work everytime. Watch your behavior and make sure you aren't seeming flirtatious to them.

2006-11-18 19:02:33 · answer #2 · answered by stardust23716 3 · 0 0

Early on in the relationship (friendship), tell him that you are only looking for a friend. The ones who are truly looking for friendship will stick around. Those who aren't will find another girl to go after. It's a risk that you will have to take but honesty is really the best way to go. You have to be true to your feelings because if you pretend to like him back, that's just leading him on. When the truth comes out, it will hurt even more for the two of you. Good luck.

2006-11-20 01:22:35 · answer #3 · answered by joe19 4 · 0 0

That is a hard question. It is hard for a guy that is interested in you to be just friends with you. But if he really likes you in time he will come around. If not then he is not worth knowing.

2006-11-18 22:16:17 · answer #4 · answered by ? 1 · 0 0

ist u decide what u want from friend....because behave with friends is different from u do with your lover or romio!!

Ist instead of blaming other u analyse your behaviour....

Second...dont act in foolish way....or dont make fool of other...before making anyone friend u exactly know whom u r going to make friend.!!
A boy OR a girl...
dont u know boys are not girls...(they dont talk about lipstick,etc...)

Its your side mistake...u have to learn how to behave with boys...

your fear is baseless created by yourself...

Actually your question is baseless as u r...

Two things are possible...either u want to make importance first by acting of liking...then ignoring...

2nd...or it may be possible that u too want to make some relation like of lovers..but afraid of it..

Dear on the whole behave in normal way...if you are good human u need not to act, all be your frinds.

But it may be possible that u seem innocent, loving and charming so that men want u as partner....

But again confusing....?!?!?...

since till today even god is so confused that he couldn't understand wht women want....

Beauti and innocent - this combination is rare...happens only once in thousand of years...
may be possible its u..this time/....






at last...just be your self..girl friend and boy friends are different creatures,,,

Read this charming book - MEN ARE FROM MARS AND WOMEN ARE FROM VENUS...

One personal thing want to say.... if u are really true and loving creature of god...then keep away of love afairs...it hurts so much...do what parents desire...(they are rarely wrong...i mean it)

love really really hurts..(it hurts to those who really love, but it has no effect on those who love for worldly pleasures)

2006-11-18 19:13:02 · answer #5 · answered by lovebird_man 2 · 0 0

When one of you wants more the "just friends" ideas is blown to crap. I've never seen it work unless there is no romantic attraction on either side.

2006-11-18 19:03:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Did you ever watch When Harry Met Sally.

2006-11-18 18:58:44 · answer #7 · answered by OU812 5 · 0 0

Have a steel cage around you.
or Keep a hunt dog with you.
Or start to make your music!!!

2006-11-18 18:55:44 · answer #8 · answered by Konfuzius 3 · 0 0

I have the exact same problem with WOMEN. Often times I don't want to move beyond "friendship" but I sense they are impatient.
Call me! : )

2006-11-18 18:57:38 · answer #9 · answered by ewr750 2 · 0 1

Start hanging out with gay guys.

2006-11-18 18:55:30 · answer #10 · answered by Nep 6 · 0 0

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