i want a child but i have had a total hysterectomy and want someone to have it for us, must live on central coast, if someone would help please contact me
2006-11-18 18:45:27 · 15 answers · asked by caz 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
just becuase she wants to have a baby doesnt mean that her husband has to do another girl you people these days i tell you. im sorry im not going to be much help. but im sure you had a hysterectomy for a reason and some times that cant be stopped i know my mom has been through it she didnt want to have one becuase she still wanted kids but her body just wasnt going to go along with that so she had to have one. I know that it can be fusterating. I have seen what it did to my mom. If you want to have a child why do u research a place in your local area im sure there are places that could help you do that. im sorry i wasnt much help but i seen some of the other comments and just had to comment becuase i know where you are coming from. not with my self but from someone i love that has had it done. best of luck to you
2006-11-18 19:09:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Basically what you're talking about is renting a womb to have a child that bears your DNA.
Frankly the very idea of paying money to rent someone's womb for 9 months is repulsive to me. It shows you're willing to use someone else's body as a baby-making factory. (No different than hiring a lady of the night.) Imagine yourself hiring out your womb to someone else for money? How do you think you would feel? Like a rent-a-womb,maybe? So, let's not degrade another woman by using her in that way, even if she's willing.
There are plenty of youngsters looking for a good home. Do the honorable thing and adopt one of them.
2006-11-18 20:06:07 · answer #2 · answered by pepper 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's called adoption. There's enough unwanted kids in the world, without you conning somebody into making more via the Internet.
2006-11-18 18:51:09 · answer #3 · answered by Asuza 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
With your husband. You got guts I couldn't let this happen. Adoption is a good way. There are so many kids that deserve a good home.
2006-11-18 18:58:04 · answer #4 · answered by unknown 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then, for God's sake, don't!
For christ's sake! It won't even be your DNA, just your husbands. If having kids makes or breaks the marriage to your husband, get out and let him mate with someone else.
Seriously, this children at any cost mentality is absurd.
2006-11-18 18:46:26 · answer #5 · answered by OU812 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
... *sigh*... don't look on this site for a potential candidate. Secondly, why do you feel the need to have a kid with your own DNA? Is it THAT important? Why not adopt a child instead? Give a kid a home... stop contributing to mass overpopulation.
2006-11-18 18:49:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
http://www.adoption.com
Adopt or get a relative or friend to be a surrogate mom but the baby would be that of your husbands but not biologically yours. Which that shouldn't matter. A baby is a baby and it dosen't matter where the baby comes from as long as you are a wonderful mom.
I don't know if this website is correct but try http://www.surrogacy.com
2006-11-18 18:52:30 · answer #7 · answered by Gabriella & Kevin 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
you mean a serrogate (sp) mother? If so you can prob. look that up on the internet. I have read of women who do that, and who can actually live with you through-out the process, so you don't miss any of the special moments.
2006-11-18 18:51:18 · answer #8 · answered by mke 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
You know you should not worry about having any children ever instead enjoy your life free from kids. Kids can do a number on you in which they can disown you. I know believe me I know.
2006-11-18 18:51:12 · answer #9 · answered by Patches 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
adoption is the best way
2006-11-19 01:05:10 · answer #10 · answered by Venus_ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋