There's this girl that I have four of my seven classes with and she has been giving me attitude since maybe a week since the entire school has found that I'm bi. I used to have a crush on her but I don't anymore. Though I still think she's fine. Whenever I attempt to get her attention, she gets an attitude. When she looks at me her eyes are literally saying "What the f*** do you want?". It's been two months since my secret was revealed and she still is giving me tude. Whenever she is laughing and playing around with her friends, looks up and sees me, her smile is gone is a maximum of 5 seconds. But there are the rare days in the week where she is polite and warm hearted, but the next day her attitude is going full steam ahead. All in all, she is getting on my last nerve. She makes me want to click on her everytime (that means I want to yell or hit her). But instead of getting the fighting with people who I have a problem with I prefer to talk it out.
2006-11-18 18:00:05 · 4 answers · asked by jazzy_jazz16 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
But I would hate to tell her how irritating her behavior towards me is. Do I just sit back and let her realize that I don't like her anymore, because I think she's doing this because she thinks I still like her. Or do I wait to see if she can come to realize that I don't like her?
2006-11-18 18:02:06 · update #1
It could be that she just doesn't know how to react to you. She may be afraid that if she's nice to you, you might take it as an invitation. Let her know that you wont try to "convert" her.
Or it's also possible she likes you and is afraid to show how she really feels. You should just say "Look, what's your trip?" If she trys to give you attitude just tell her "I just want to talk and find out why you seem so afraid to communicate with me. I'm not hitting on you. I just want to know what's up with you lately."
It could also be peer pressure. She may like you but doesn't want to be thought of as your "girlfriend" by the rest of the school. If that's the case she just needs to grow up. She's not worth the effort until she does.
Good luck babe. Talk to her if she'll talk. If not leave her be and move on.
2006-11-18 18:31:21 · answer #1 · answered by just jenn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i was in your situation i would pull her to one side and ask her what her problem is if she gives you attitude let her no that your noy gonna put up with it there and then
2006-11-19 02:07:13 · answer #2 · answered by sliverlady 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know, if I didn't know any better I'd say she's pretty attracted to you...
2006-11-19 02:02:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jen has a great answer..
2006-11-19 03:42:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋