Me and my friend, Jordan, had a HUGE fight in August. I want to make up but he always acts rude around me when I try to make up. Do you think that he is scared that an old rumor that we are dating will go back around?
2006-11-18 17:42:28 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
He isn't really mad at me, he is more mad at what I thought
2006-11-18 17:46:40 · update #1
If he was truly your friend, he would have already forgiven you.
send him a note telling him how you feel, and ask him to respond. If he doesn't...well perhaps you should move on.
2006-11-18 17:45:29 · answer #1 · answered by ladyjeansntee 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if u have tried and failed,dont push too hard coz u have played your part but he is not coming along,then the rest is his. once he gets to his senses, he will come back. i honestly dont think that he is worth the stress, coz he definately feels good when he sees u pleading and may be he is making fun of u. im sure u are not that desperate, just let go, maybe is is saving u from some thing u may realise later. and please, i would want to know when he ever gets back to his senses,the time he comes running after u having realised he threw away something so precious
2006-11-19 01:56:53 · answer #2 · answered by Brendar 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He's probably freaked out, yeah. Call, text, email - whatever it takes to get the message through, then try to meet in a neutral place where you can both relax and talk.
Good luck :)
2006-11-19 01:46:03 · answer #3 · answered by band_camp_dork 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Give him more time and space to work through it.
Stay friendly and he will eventually come around and realise what a true friend you are.
2006-11-19 02:44:21 · answer #4 · answered by Yellowstonedogs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i was kinda in a situation like that. if he scared over foolishness like that then sorry to say he's a freak. plus u shouldn't waste your time apologising to someone that doesn't want to hear it. move on, it may seem hard but there are somethings that ya got to let go and he is one.
2006-11-19 01:48:51 · answer #5 · answered by Kay 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yeah he is scared of it, but you should still try to become his friend again. Maybe by inviting him to hangout when you have a bunch of people over and then when he is comfortable with that. then only invite a few people over until he is comfortable with that. Try to earn his trust again.
2006-11-19 02:21:19 · answer #6 · answered by tmjd 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
SOMEONE WHO JUST DOESN'T WANT TO BE YOUR FRIEND BECAUSE OF STUPID RUMERS CAN'T BE YOUR FRIEND!!! IF HE IS YOUR "FRIEND" THEN HE SHOULD ACT LIKE A FRIEND>>YOU HAVE HAD ENOUGH OF THIS DEAR, IF YOU WOULD TRY TO RETRIEVE HIS FRIENDSHIP ANYMORE, HE WOULD THINK THAT YOU ARE IN LOVE WITH HIM AND HE WOULD AVOID YOU!! SO TAKE TIME..ONE DAY HE WOULD COME AND ASK YOU TO BE HIS FRIEND, BELIEVE ME.
2006-11-19 02:52:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely, I think you are 100% right!
2006-11-19 01:44:46 · answer #8 · answered by Jack 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋