I need some serious help!!?

Question

i have this friend. she likes this guy. so do i. so how can i tell him without hurting her feelings or her heart.?????

Answer 1

I have seen this happen so many times. If your friend is a really good friend, then why chance hurting her and your relationship? Stay away from the guy. There will be others.

Answer 2

Keep your yap shut. Silence is golden. Just keep your thoughts in your head for now. You'll know when the time comes to tell her. And when that time does come tell her what's in your heart, not what some people on the interweb think. And if she doesn't accept both of you liking the same guy, then you don't deserve a friend like that.

Answer 3

some advice--- is this boy that special to breakup your friendship with your friend?it's too many boys out here to do this besides you sound like your young so it must not be that serious,I suggest you go with what you feel in your heart but no matter how you tell your crush,your friend she's still gonna be hurt---think about this,what if this guy does decides he likes you and he wants to talk to you and down the road you guys break up.then you would have lost your dude and your friend its not worth it too me,i think this situation is one of the reasons why i dont have alot of close friends,some are too quick to backstab you but its your choice.goodluck!

Answer 4

Well, be straight up with your friend and tell her, and don't concern yourself so much with getting the "relashonship" status with this guy. Get to know him better and let things happen as they do, don't force things and don't avoid them, unless you really feel inspired to. This is a very difficult question to answer because it comes down to how much you value you friend and you beliefs on morality of what you are doing, but remember that the right thing for you to do is to follow your morality and not another persons.

Answer 5

Well that just all depends on how much your gurl really likes the dude....i mean does your friends know how you feel about this guy? and well if doesn't then i really think that you should tell her and well who knows maybe she really dont feel the way you do and she may just step back and let you have him.....and well then again you have to go were your heart tells you to go and if she really is your friend she well be happy to see you happy....i mean things happen for a reason you know.....life is to damn short to wait to see what is going to happen.....make things happen....Wish you the best.

Answer 6

If you are really concerned about her feelings (and heart),
then why don't you do the friendly thing and look somewhere else for another boy.
Surely your friendship is more important than a crush on this boy.
And I'm certain you wouldn't want to ruin a good friendship over
some boy..
Do the 'right' thing, say nothing to anyone.

Answer 7

Would you rather the friend or the guy? Be honest with yourself. Will you end up marrying the guy? Then why lose the friend?

Answer 8

You see every person is independent till they hook up to some one. So if you are attractive and he likes you you need not go over and tell him any thing let him approach you

Answer 9

you need to tell her first b/c if you start going out with then she will feel like you betrayed her. just tell her that you really have strong feelings for him and want to take it further if its okay with her. she may not like him as much as you do b/c if she did then she would ask him out. as long that you get her approval, then you should pursue him.

Answer 10

Just tell him. Your friend must take care of her own business in this case. Don't bring her into it.