How can people say that women don't hate me? Never once have they given me a chance, all have rejected me at every advance. I'm not a smooth talker, player, or jerk, but women don't care, they reject my works. What is it about me that women hate so much ? So far it's everything, right down to my touch. They don't look upon me like I'm beautiful and such, all they ever shown me is their utter disgust. People say women like me, but they have no proof. Surely they must think of me as some stupid goof. Women can't see the damage they caused, by rejecting me at every twist & turn. They can't how I'm dying inside, if so, all they do is spurn. I guess women don't want me to know Love,, soon my death will be planned. How I kill myself I don't know, but living a life devoid of love is truly bland. Nobody wants to help, because they're too scared. Just as long as it's not them, they don't really care. If women don't hate me, then what's the deal? Can't they see that my feelings are truly real ?
2006-11-18
17:13:13
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Hello Papabeartex ! I know all about the guy with the very long nose. My reality doesn't work that way,also what I wrote is not some rap song, but my true emotions. The poetic part is just a side-effect, I wasn't really thinking about trying to rhyme or anything.
2006-11-18
17:32:33 ·
update #1
Fernando_007 your answers have only proven to be inconsequential my particular case. I say this because women have been rejecting me left & right for 25 yrs, I've been there & done that.
2006-11-18
17:44:33 ·
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Novaangel1747 you are a woman, and yet you do not seem to know that women destroy confidence. You are blind to my plight.
2006-11-18
18:04:50 ·
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I am very alone too..My biggest fear is that I will die alone...Men won't give me the time of day..I am a good person but i suffer with depression and most men RUN. I think feeling LONELY is the hardest thing to deal with. I am 35 and expected to be married with kids by now...They say that there is someone for everyone but I don't believe that. they say to stop looking and they will come to you...not true. Maybe you should see a therapist. Start going to singles dances/singles activities at the churches/around the neighborhood. The last thing you need to do is isolate. I understand wanting to die..I do...I can't stand the thought of going into another year ALONE. and you are right..people are too busy with their own thoughts/problems to care about others or to even recognize they are alone and hurting. It's very tough to be alone and loneliness can kill you faster than any disease...Hang in there...
2006-11-18 18:05:20
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answered by chilover 7
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to be rejected is not a very nice thing true, but why don't you start to be more positive in life, face the world, and say women DO like and respect you, you have not met the right one yet, I know and appreciate 25 yrs is a longtime to be rejected, but you have to meet people half way. a relationship is a two way thing.life too is a wonderful thing and we only get one chance, so think Positive
go out to-day with a silly grin on your face and make someone happy, who knows it may be returned. good luck.
2006-11-19 03:26:38
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answered by poetrygirl on line 3
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I am truly sorry. Even though I am a woman, I don't usually get along with other women. I'm not feminine at all, I hate to shop, to cry...to feel anything really.
One day you shall find someone that matches you perfectly, someone that completes you without question. And, please, don't kill yourself. A wasted life is such a tragedy. Usually, when you stop looking for someone to love, you'll find that person. Everything just kind of falls into place. That's how it was for me.
I wish you luck. Hopefully you will find her soon. Who knows, maybe she's looking for you as well. It is said there is someone for everbody....although I have no idea who said it ^.^
2006-11-19 04:16:05
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answered by third_syren_of_seduction 3
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You need to socialize meaning do things together with the group of people, like playing, hiking, swimming, discussing books, etc. Become a member of some club or society like Scouts and for a minute forget about women in a sense of different sex. Consider them like comrades. Think about your mother as a woman and your sister (if you have one). You talk to them, right. Your approach is tough. Compare it with desire to have a lot of money. If you are thinking of robing a bank it is tough. If you are thinking of working and earning a money things get brighter and more feasible. So, go to earn money. As you might notice I skeeped to talk about fysical appearence or attitude. They help the same way as when you are going to job interview. When you socialize the first impression counts. That's about all you need to know. And lastly, girls, like everybody, know what you are after, and they understand it. So you are doing nothing imoral.
2006-11-19 01:30:14
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answered by fernando_007 6
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I see that u r a good poet at least. Read the book of Cyrano de Bergerac (sorry spelling check could never help this one). But go to the nearest library or ur computer and look up his life story u will benefit greatly from it I assure u.
2006-11-19 01:22:15
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answered by papabeartex 4
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I can tell you this much without knowing you.Too much negative from someone,and I mean anyone on planet earth,is a turnoff.your very words say you have no confidence in yourself.i noticed you are a level three,so you obviously have some talent.i want to tell u this,I WITNESSED MY BROTHERS DEATH BY GUNSHOT AT AGE 15,I HAD MY DAUGHTER STOLEN AT BIRTH,AND NEVER SAW HER AGAIN UNTIL SHE WAS 22,MY 3 YR OLD GRANDSON HAS CANCER,MY LOVING SON OF 30YRS,MARRIED INTO A CULT LAST YEAR AND HASNT HAD ANYTHING TO DO WITH FAMILY SINCE.I HAD FOUR OTHER S I LOVE DIE AT THE HAND OF A GUN,ALL SUICIDE.THEY LEFT BEHIND BABIES, MOTHERS,AND SPOUSES WHO LOVED THEM,BUT YET THEY DIDNT THINK ABOUT IT.I WAS RAPED, BEATEN,AND LEFT FOR DEAD AT 16.I AM 49 NOW.I USED TO HAVE A CAREER IN NASHVILLE,BUT THREE BRAINSTROKES,CANCER FIVE TIMES AND NOW MS CHANGED ALL THAT.AND MOST RECENT I LOST ANOTHER FAMILY MEMBER TODAY AT 5AM.TO CANCER,BUT THROUGH ALL THIS ,I STILL LOVE ME.IF YOU DONT LOVE YOURSELF FIRST ,HOW CAN ANYONE ELSE,AND IF U ARE JUST PLAYIN AROUND WITH THOSE WORDS [KILL MYSELF],THEN U ARE MOST CRUEL.OH AND DID I MENTION MY FATHER DIED IN PRISON FOR MURDER? NOVA
2006-11-19 01:50:02
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answered by nastynelly 1
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you are not alone to feel like this in this world ... even those people with good physical appearance may feel like rejected........ tell me one thing...how does it matter to you in your life so much that if someone rejects you for some reason that you wish to end up yourself............. how would it effect them those who reject you if you will end yourself dear..... tell me.... and let me tell you never run after anything....... the more you will try to catch hold the more away it goes........ and love is not about getting its only about giving.......... have you given love to a child who didnt get any love because he is an orphan........have you given care to some one in a hospital who is ill.......... if you feel you are rejected then go out and help the needy and give your love to people who really need your love dear.......... and the happiness which you will get when you will see them smiling, i think that would be awesome............to hell with those women who rejected you........... damn care about them......... you have a beautiful heart with full of love, the love which you want to give to someone..... give it to someone who realy need it......... there is lot more in this world then sleeping with a woman .............
hope you will understand this............. change your self........
2006-11-19 02:25:59
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answered by Anonymous
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Maybe it is time to cut the game and just come out and ask for what you want. You might be suprised!
2006-11-19 01:33:54
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answered by David M 3
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You know the first thing that came to my mind was that I read it as a rap song...It's good.
2006-11-19 01:15:27
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answered by friendly face 4
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