Is there anyone who belives that children should only be born in wedlock?

Question

I believe this. Even though I have so many liberal views about sex, birthcontrol, and prematrial sex. I think children should only be born in wedlock. I wasn't born in wedlock myself, I was suppose to but my dad was being stupid and didn't want to marrry my mom.

Answer 1

Ideally children should be born in marriage but marriage does not guarantee a perfect home or perfect children nor does a child out of wedlock mean that the child is condemned to a life of misery. I know some married couples that have more trouble in their home and relationships than some unmarried couples that just shack up. My sister and her boyfriend were together 15 years before he passed away and they had 4 children and never married and her children never knew they were not legally married. Then I see people who get married and have kids and divorce 4 or 5 years later. The most important thing is that a child has a HAPPY home.

Answer 2

Marriage between a man and woman is so important before bringing children into the world. It takes one of each to create a child. It takes one of each to properly raise a child.
There are so many children being raised in single parent familys today! Mothers don't have the time to properly care for and nourish the children emotionally because they are trying to carry the financial burden of family. Children spend most of their daily hours in day care. Therefore being raised by the daycare providers. They're not being taught the importance of family values and all the things that are so important to learn in a family setting. When mom is home she's trying to get all the household duties taken care of and the children end up missing out again, on the amount of time being spent with the parent they do have. Fathers influences on children are so important. Their not getting those experiences that can only come thru having both parents in the home!

Answer 3

It's nice in theory but even in conservative society of days past, many children were born out of wedlock. Among the Victorians, over 10% and up to 30% of children were illegitimate. Modern estimates are about 30%. I think that children should have two parents that are part of their lives, and if they get along they should raise their children together. However, if they don't get along, nobody should make them stick together for the purposes of raising a child, as you probably would agree with me. As for me, my parents were married two years before I was born, have never been married to anyone else, and are still married. My mother often says that there would be no way that she could have raised her children without my dad's constant support. I guess that I would wish that kind of family on others, but I know that these sorts of situations can't exist for others. I think that people, men and women, should take equal responsibility for their children.

Answer 4

It's in the Bible that there is to be NO sex before marriage. Also, when the couple is married, that means that they are comfortable with the fact that one day a pregnancy can be in the works, like most marriages. When two people are just screwin and living in sin, that doesn't give a clear indication that all is right and that they are ready to have a child together. The couple must be ready Financially, emotionally, and with maturity. Mistakes happen these days more than ever, where you see kids with different last names than the mother. Myself, if i ever meet a lady and wanna have kids, i'll make sure we have a ring on our fingers before getting into bed with her.

Answer 5

For myself coming from a mother & father whom I believe should have never been together but married... No, Poeple make mistakes and things happen....get over it, it is life... I believe no matter the gender the parents should be involved in the childs life.... excluding abuse stuff of cource.
I myself am a single mom. My daughter barely realizes she is except for the fact she does miss her father. (as he is states away) And I never wanted to have a child out of wedlock...but thats how it ended up. (my mistake) But not her...I couldn't imagine my life without her.

Answer 6

the place did you ever get the thought that a baby born out of wedlock replaced right into a damnation? even nonetheless that youngster's mum and dad had intercourse before marriage, which i think is incorrect- that youngster isn't incorrect. each baby created is a blessing from God. and each individual would be held in charge for his or her very own sin, no longer the sins of their mum and dad.that youngster heavily isn't sent to hell through fact she replaced into conceived outdoors of marriage- that does no longer propose regardless of the undeniable fact that that she would be in heaven, to any extent further than everyone else- it's going to be his/her determination whilst that youngster is on the age of accountability- that youngster and the mother and dad would have a option to settle for Christ or no longer.

Answer 7

I think it is better to bring a child in the world with a mother and a father, but children who are not should not be treated any different.

Answer 8

While it is good to be born in wedlock, it doesn't really make you any more or less human if you weren't born in wedlock.

Answer 9

I do to. Not only that, the Word of God thinks so to. Well the Bible says that we are not to fornicate(have sex and not be married to the partner). Having children outside of marriage can only happen unless you fornicate. There are so many pros to support my opinion that I won't go into it. May God Bless

Answer 10

I believe that children should only be born in wedlock.

I also believe that couples should wait till marriage to have sex also.