have an online bro...whom i love very much..i dont have a real bro..so never knew whats the significance of having one...he is doing his iit and lives in a hostel with a room mate..his room mate is such a @%$#@%#@...downtrodennish person..that he was too jealous with our relationship...yesterday his rooma mate sent me many messages by saying that...he has 4 gfs and has already left one...and that he had said a lie to me that he doesnt have any...initially i dint believe to his crap messages..but then he started saying that...my bro wanna make me his girl friend and that he is no longer ineterested to keep this bro-sis relationship...i had become very very hurt...and thought of proving his room mate wrong...but i dint have gutts to ask my bro directly...however that night...i sent him a message by asking him whether he likes me in that sense...since then he is so much hurt that he is crying and weeping..and has gone really down...thats all my fault, i agree..i have done a sin
2006-11-18 16:30:52 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
What???? this makes no sense....
your bro as in brother?
what sin?? how have you commited a sin?
It seems very clear to me that you need to just back off big time and find someone that you can be with face to face. On line relationships leave so much room for deception, lies, dishonesty, and all sorts of things... Just make friends with people that you can spend time with. you are worthy of that.
2006-11-18 16:35:24 · answer #1 · answered by Dr. Phil-lys 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The first thing is how well do you know your "bro's" roommate? Are they just jelous of the friendship you to have? (Just a thought) I don't think you have done anything wrong by expressing your feelings for him, he might have reacted strongly but give him a bit of time to proccess what's just happened! It's a lot to take in all at once. Try talking to him 1 to 1, maybe the signals have just got a bit confused. Good luck
2006-11-18 16:40:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How on earth did he get on line from a hostel?? Don't be so gullible! Just remember MOST chatters in chat rooms lie about one thing or another so turn off your PC, go out and do something REAL!
2006-11-18 19:23:42 · answer #3 · answered by clare b 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
We all make mistakes that is how we learn sometimes .Your brothers room mate is a trouble maker and I wouldnt believe a word he says .Tell your brother the truth his room mate told you that your brother was in love with you and so you questioned your brother about this change in attitude just to clarify things between you not to upset him .
2006-11-18 16:41:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ouch!
u better clear things up with him as soon as possible. he has been very down, so u need to tell him the truth that his mate is really an arsehole, you and your bro should not let him ruin your relationship. and your bro doesn't deserve this, neither do u. clear the ugly friend out of ur boths way.
Caution - on liners are deceitful, are u?
2006-11-18 16:37:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Enjoy your correspondence with your online friend but don't get so emotionally involved. You don't even know whether it is an old man or a woman who calls you his sister.
2006-11-18 22:07:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Copy and paste the communication from the roommate and send it to your bro. explain to him that is the reason for you asking him about his feelings. I'm sure he will understand. then he can straighten out his roommate.
2006-11-18 16:38:26 · answer #7 · answered by Meli 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
U have done nothing wrong. If he is only an internet friend then u owe him nothing U dont even know him. Forget him
2006-11-18 16:37:22 · answer #8 · answered by rachel d 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
done is done.. no point in crying on spilt milk.
Explain your brother, what made you to ask such a question. He will understand.
Wondering, is it such a big problem to solve....
2006-11-18 16:38:53 · answer #9 · answered by Govinda 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it's not a sin .Move on forget it .Not a big deal if he is only an online friend . Move on .
2006-11-18 16:33:49 · answer #10 · answered by IT'S JUST ME ! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋