why is it that im not interrested in sex anymore with my husband and what can be done about it i love him he's a cutie pie he's great in bed. so i don't know am i lazy becuase it take aout 1.5hrs. from start to finish or maybe cus hes groping me all the time i dont know
2006-11-18 16:28:22 · 6 answers · asked by pooper 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
There are lots of reasons for someone's sex drive to diminish. Are you taking any medications? Even birth control can affect your sex drive.
Could be stress, could be a hormonal imbalance, could be a whole host of things. Could also be that you are no longer sexually attracted to your husband or that something your husband does turns you off (let's hope it's not that!).
Everyone has that honeymoon period with their significant others, where they essentially f*ck like rabbits. That eventually ends for everyone, to an extent. But "they" say the typical married couple has sex a few times a week. I dunno....
You may want to talk to your doctor or gyn to rule out a physical reason for your decreased sex drive. Also investigate ways to spice up your sex life. Most importantly, talk with your husband about it!
2006-11-18 16:36:37 · answer #1 · answered by kris 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Try new things, take a vacation, do something to spice it up, I say role play or fantasy fullfilement is interesting, talk to him about spicing stuff up, don't tell him you lost interest, do something exotic, ask for something exotic. The feeling can come back, just need something new!
2006-11-18 16:31:33 · answer #2 · answered by code_mak 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I am in the same boat...but I have lots of problems with my periods and this only happens when I miss them. Have you been on any pills lately...some can alter your sex drive.
2006-11-18 16:45:46 · answer #3 · answered by Mrs Baker 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am in the same boat kinda, I think it is we need to do more romantic and different things to spice it up for us. At least for me anyway. Good luck!
2006-11-18 16:32:21 · answer #4 · answered by thunder&lightening 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Insist he find a girl friend !!!!
2006-11-18 16:31:27 · answer #5 · answered by cry baby gator 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
do it less often...light candles too..be romantic
2006-11-18 16:30:42 · answer #6 · answered by Apple Pie Eater 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋