2006-11-18 16:24:00 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Depends on what the issue is, but I dont think I would bother anyway, cause if you have any doubt that she is lieing, then give her the ' marching orders'. One quick way to destroy any relationship, is dishonesty, I cant stand liars. If she is liaing, she will trip herself up in the long run, liars have a way about them, they forget what they tell you, and ALWAYS trip themselves up in the end. I wouldnt mention anything about the situation, just keep my ears open and sooner or later she or someone will slip and let the truth out. Its a well known fact that liars just hate it when they are not challenged about what they said, because most of the time, they only lie to attract attention to themselves, so if you dont bite or ask, it will drive your friend crazy and maybe he/she will admit the truth anyhow or stuff up. Move on, they are not worth it.
Good Lucl
2006-11-18 16:34:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
True friends shouldn't lie to you. If you truly know and you can prove that she is lying to you, then, I think you got 2 choices. Either let it go - pretend nothing happened; or confront her as to why she should lie to you. Of course, most of us would want our friends to be honest with us. However, sometimes, the truth will hurt us, as well.
Take care...
2006-11-18 16:28:36 · answer #2 · answered by gracenpraise w 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
initially through maximum criteria.. she isn't a pal.( i say that interior the frankest and nicest way i comprehend) what i advise is, that a pal would not confine you to on-line chat and uncommon/occasional conferences. for sure this human being has a lack of social skills or a conception that they want to fill their empty emotional void through sketchy-information superhighway relationships. what i advise through this...is they purely turn to you ---on-line--- at the same time as they're ----obtainable----...and a similar should be likely suggested for his or her actual-international encounters with you. the rationalization for the infrequency is two area. A. they're basically lonely at circumstances B. they view you as a non everlasting restore to their loneliness at the same time as no human being else is for sale. TAKE a contact and from now on enable this human being comprehend how you both experience about your "courting". in the adventure that they are straightforward,,,,,they are going to take the time to reconcile the mis-information. if no longer.......take it as a lesson realized as to a own case learn of interpersonal sociological learn.
2016-10-16 09:38:53 · answer #3 · answered by forker 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless you can prove it there is nothing you can do... If it was me I would try my damest to find a way to get the proof and front them out on it... I hate a liar... especially if I consider them a real friend... it brings distrust into the relationship... and that ain't good. Or just fake it that you have proof and see if they fess up to it... hope this helps!!!!
2006-11-18 16:34:47 · answer #4 · answered by Sandy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing,,,, if someone lies to you, that's THEIR issue, not yours. They have to live with the lie. You only have to hear it.
Rise above and realize that lying is uncool and it's not something that you would do. If they do it, they're cowardly and can't face the consequences of the truth.
2006-11-18 16:26:49 · answer #5 · answered by Dr. Phil-lys 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call her on the lie, and let her know that you know she's lying. thats the only to stop it. or to not be friends with someone who lies/
2006-11-18 16:26:43 · answer #6 · answered by blondie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her to her face and say wait hold up wait a minute STOP IT RIGHT NOW OK BECAUSE YOU ARE LYING
2006-11-18 16:27:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋