i have an online bro...whom i love very much..i dont have a real bro..so never knew whats the significance of having one...he is doing his iit and lives in a hostel with a room mate..his room mate is such a @%$#@%#@...downtrodennish person..that he was too jealous with our relationship...yesterday his rooma mate sent me many messages by saying that...he has 4 gfs and has already left one...and that he had said a lie to me that he doesnt have any...initially i dint believe to his crap messages..but then he started saying that...my bro wanna make me his girl friend and that he is no longer ineterested to keep this bro-sis relationship...i had become very very hurt...and thought of proving his room mate wrong...but i dint have gutts to ask my bro directly...however that night...i sent him a message by asking him whether he likes me in that sense...since then he is so much hurt that he is crying and weeping..and has gone really down...i know that i had done a sin..and cannot forgive myself
2006-11-18 16:23:25 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Are you just trying to wind people up, or are you really that pathetic in real life?!
Online bro?! Who cries over a question like that?
You americans are a very very strange people.
2006-11-18 16:26:39 · answer #1 · answered by irishcharmer84 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To realize a mistake is the bravest thing to do. Remember one thing-if you trust somebody, trust that person fully. Never get influenced by other's crap. You should tell your bro why you were prompted to ask such a question and also forward all the messages sent by his room mate to him. Make him aware of the deeds of his room mate. Hopefully, he will understand. No brother can be angry with his sister for long. Brothers love thier sisters very much.
2006-11-19 02:02:26 · answer #2 · answered by Kapil G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur case is similar to mine i too don't have any real sisters i've net sisters. answer to ur question - first of all no one has done the sin either u or the so called brother. but u made a mistake. how u believed his room mates' words. is this what u understood of him for these many days? yes bro is right he cried it shows his purity. he might have felt that how such a tought came to ur mind. let him have some time and apologise honestly and do tell why u needed to ask that question and the circumstances. have a direct talk and try to contact him
2006-11-19 12:33:43 · answer #3 · answered by Dvij 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you have done is not a sin. If he truly values your friendship he should be able to answer a question like that without such dramatics. It leads to two possible conclusions
1) The friend was right he does want you as his girlfriend.
2) He is emotionally unstable
It is either or both of the above. His reaction to your question is not what you could call "normal" in any way!
Decide what you want, you either have to run to him, or run from him. Things will never be the same again, sorry.
2006-11-19 00:30:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
For one does your bro know of the messages sent via his room mate? If not you may want to share them with him so that he knows why you asked what you did. You did nothing wrong but ask a question that was on your mind. It may hurt knowing that you hurt him like that but I am sure that if you talk with him about it and tell him why you did what you did he will understand and everything will turn out alright. Good luck.
2006-11-19 00:27:10 · answer #5 · answered by miliardo_by_moonlight 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get YOUR head screwed on straight and quit messing with some dumbo on the Inet!!!!! He may be some ole drunken beer belly guy with whiskers grown out. FORGET him!!!
If I talked to you online I can tell you ANYTHING you want to hear. Your online bro is probably having a great time screwing around with you. He and the room mate or probably the same person.
Get your thinking back into reality. You DON'T just take up with some weirdo that is probably jerking you around.
Good luck. Pops
2006-11-19 00:29:02 · answer #6 · answered by Pops 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There cant be any brother sister relationship between unknown persons. You can say it is a good friendship and keeping it going for a long time.Men women attraction start this kind of friendship. If he is your btother will he give a share of his property to you? I dont have any elder brothers but I can call my friends , friends only. Dont try to fool yourself. Suppose u may think him as a brother. But will anyeveryone accept this relationship? Why he should cry? So dont feel bad. It is good that u have asked him.
2006-11-19 06:43:50 · answer #7 · answered by cindrella 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whoa, i think you are being rough on yourself, and in return being rough on your bro. If the two of you are actually close not in that sense, then your brother will take your apology. If he does like you in that sense then there is no reason for you to feel bad about asking the question. So just be straight up with him, get the bushes and clouds out of the relashonship. If you have reason to hide things from him, or feel it necessary to leave things in the dark with him, the relashonship is likely not with the pain in any way. Use truth and don't leave things out convieniantly.
2006-11-19 00:33:53 · answer #8 · answered by Nate K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I don't know the truth of ur brother and their room mate.
But to find the clear image of both person u should chat them at the same time, and tell the whole story.
Well would u like to be my Sister !!!!!!!
I will feel Luck myself.
Plz reply if u really Love me as a Good Sister at
manojatindia@yahoo.com
2006-11-19 09:11:13 · answer #9 · answered by manojatindia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie, you did NOT commit any sin. I don't know why your online brother cried, but maybe you can give him a bit of space for him to heal. Wait a few days before contacting him again, and please don't be so hard on yourself. I'm sure things will work out between you two. Just give yourself a break and him some space. Good luck and best wishes to you both.
2006-11-19 00:43:18 · answer #10 · answered by patience s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋