i have a friend and we have been friends for almost 5 years we always have so much fun together and we are open about everything she has been there for me and i have been there for her. well me and alot of my friends(who are girls)made out with each other. but see we would only do it because guys thought it was hot.but me and her we made out when it was just us and i have always thought about doing more than just makin out with a girl, but im not bi or lesbian and i dont wanna be.i like having sex with guys too much! t she feels the same way because she just came out and was like " want to do more than just m/o with a girl and the only girl i would ever do that with is you" and i feel the same way. i havent done anything with her yet but i just wanna kno what i should do?!?! and if that makes me bi or a lesbian or what??? please help!!!
2006-11-18 16:13:53 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Don't be concerned with a label...you two have feelings/attraction for each other..& that is a special thing. Enjoy the pleasure you can offer each other in friendship and whatever else presents itself. Be respectful and tender to each other.
2006-11-18 16:20:06 · answer #1 · answered by evemarkra 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say almost all woman have those thoughts at least once in their life and some longer and more than others. You are just curious about sex with the same gender and you won't be called Bi until it happens again and again. If your friend is willing and so are you, go for it!! Tame your curiosity and then write in again and tell us how it went and then ask us again what title we would give you...now it's just curiosity. Have fun!
2006-11-19 00:21:05 · answer #2 · answered by Mustang Sally 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it's obvious that you and her have grown really close, and y'all have passed the boundaries of a standard friendship. I don't think it makes you bi, I just think you are curious. If you don't do it now, you probably will always be thinking about. If you do decide to do it, I think y'all should keep the whole situation to just the two of y'all, because I am sure there are going to be some thoughts, and situations that are going to be needing to be worked out afterwards.
2006-11-19 00:22:50 · answer #3 · answered by M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound curious, if you really feel comfortable with her and think your friendship can take it then go farther than just making out and see how much you like it. Only you know whether or not you are bi or lesbian.
2006-11-19 00:20:57 · answer #4 · answered by Rageling 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What makes you Bi or lesbian is how you define yourself. Only you make that decision. Why not experiment with it more? Test the waters. It's not going to change you if you don't want it to.
2006-11-19 00:21:45 · answer #5 · answered by Ida 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋