Me and my husband are content with our seven month old daughter Natasha but we don't want anymore. I bought two pregnacy tests awhile back and they were both positive. My husband thinks I have been going to work with my daughter every day but in reality I have been goig to the doctor's and making sure I am healthy. I know I am pregnant. How do I tell him about my pregnancy? What do I need to pack? (My mom did it last time and she is in bad health so she can't) Why does womens hair get dull during and after pregnancy?
2006-11-18 16:12:08 · 10 answers · asked by ♥HunterMarie♥ 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
your worried about what to pack?????huh?!?!? id worry about hubby first.... i ampregnant with #3, unexpected, and my hubby was extatic...you know what #2 is soooooo easy....you already have one, whats one more??? its a blessing i promise you!
2006-11-18 16:19:51 · answer #1 · answered by bangbanks72 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what kind of things is it you need to pack for?
Your hair goes dull as it is just the growing baby taking the nutrients from your body.
My husband and I didn't want anymore children, we already had four and that was enough. I fell pregnant with a fifth and he used to tell me that if I fell again he would leave me, beacuse he had made his decision.
As soon as I found out I did tell him as the whole pregnancy was a big shock to me. He gave me an ultimatum if I keep the baby he goes or I get rid of it.
I said well the baby is staying I didn't get pregnant on my own so good bye. Well after a week he came back and I set down some rules and told him I will not tolerate being given ultimatums again EVER.
My son is now 15 1/2 months old and he is the apple of his daddy's eye.
You did not get pregnant alone and you are old enough to know the risks if you are not carefull during sex and he needs to remember this too.
You will love your baby when it arrives as much as you love your first.
You and your husband will adjust to this new beautiful little baby and he/she will be the apple of your eyes aswell
2006-11-19 00:25:54 · answer #2 · answered by shellhiggs07 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Since you are pregnant the second time and to choked up to tell him. This is what you do. Write a note(tell him about the baby and name a place and time to meet you for lunch) put it in his pant pocket that he is going to wear to work. Lunch Meeting Put on something pretty and put on some good smelling perfume on. Give him a card and let it read "Congratulations Daddy" and smile.
About your hair: the luster leaves because your estrogen level is being sucked up by the baby. Your hormones is changing and your body is transferring into a capsule that is carrying another cell.
2006-11-19 00:34:20 · answer #3 · answered by peaches and cream 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good luck on telling him about it, but do it don't try to wait or hide it. AS far as packing, pack something you like some clothes and some clothes for the baby. You could go to a child birth class they would tell you what to bring. AS far as your hair, hormones and chemical makeup change. Some peoples hair changes w/ each pregnancy. Esp if you use prenatal vitamines.
2006-11-19 00:16:23 · answer #4 · answered by tera_duke 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe that the best way to tell him to to just tell him. Take a deep breath and spit it out. That's the hardest part, getting it out. But once you do, you'll feel better. As far as what to pack, just think of everything you might need. Clothes, pillow, baby stuff (My Mom pack my bag too, lol)....anything you think you might need.
Congrats and good luck on telling him!
2006-11-19 00:21:04 · answer #5 · answered by ~Anna~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would just sit down and start taking to him about the pregnacy and if he does take yes for an answer than he just has to deal with it , but don't give up!
2006-11-19 00:20:11 · answer #6 · answered by monica s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Omg what is wrong with you!?! Tell your husband! He has the right to know. If you keep it from him hes going to be hurt and in turn probably get pissed. Its wrong to keep it from him. Though you guys may not want another child you are having one. So grow up and tell your husband.
2006-11-19 00:22:35 · answer #7 · answered by Kimi is 31 weeks 1/7 w/#2! 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just ask you mom how she approached him last time. If he really loves you he'll understand and learn his lesson. As for the hair dull question Im not sure.
2006-11-19 00:16:14 · answer #8 · answered by Daisy:) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have no idea how u should tell him. prolly make a nice dinner and tell him when everythings calm. umm and on babycenter.com is a list of things u'd need to pack. good luck and congradulations, hope everything works out
2006-11-19 00:16:49 · answer #9 · answered by Rubber Duckie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so your hubby doenst know??? man....i mean if you dont trust your husband then why are you married ???...he should be the 1st person you tell!!
2006-11-19 00:15:41 · answer #10 · answered by theoneandonly 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋