What is wrong with me?

Question

Sometimes ,I have such a terrible dreams when I am asleep.It happens every now and then .I dream i am falling ,or I am in a tough situation trying to escape ,making noises ,calling my husband to help me and etc.I cant say nightmare but they are a bit scary .Anyway when I dream like that ,I start screaming and my husband wakes me up .Last night I was alone ,he's on a trip,I dreamt that he was at home and my kids were doing something wrong and he had quarrel with them.I was in the kitchen when I went to the livingroom I saw my kids (one is 15 and the other is 17) are two little kids around 5 and 7.They held me and kept kissing me in a very annoying way,I was going to die.So I screamed my husband's name asked him to help me.Suddenly my mother (she slept in my house because we were alone)woke me up and said what happend you were screaming.I dont know if something is wrong with me.I am not a nervous person and I dont think i am psycho at all..Do you think it has a reason or it is normal?

Answer 1

Dream is an expression of your sub-conscious thoughts.
If you are having some fears in sub-conscious but not aware of them, your dream will tell you about them.
Sometimes, it is an indication of what is going to happen in future.
If you are having clear mind inclined towards spirituality, you may see some thing that is going to happen in future as a dream.
Sometimes, it is a past life memory coming back to your mind.
If you have had any trauma in past life, you may see that incident as a dream in the same age when it had happened in last life, in this life too.
If you are getting scary dreams, either you are having premonition of something bad that is going to happen, or having a past life memory of something bad that happened with you in your past life or some deep down sub-conscious fear.
So, you need to sit peacefully and remember your dream very clearly to find out what it is out of these possibilities and handle accordingly yourself.
There is nothing serious or wrong. It is very common to have such dream under above circumstances.

Answer 2

. When I have very troubling dreams, it is usually when I am under a lot of stress. Innaccurate pictures of the situations which cause the stress appear in my dreams. There are certain recurring themes in my dreams, and some are common throughout the population. The falling dream is one that appears to much of the population.
. There is not much to suggest that dreams have any meaning. They certainly have no predictive power, and they are not subject to decoding. Do not buy a book on deciphering dreams. They will tell you that seeing such and such in your dreams always indicates ta particular thing. There is no such code in your brain.
. If you have had a long term tendency to cry out during your dreams, there may be a treatable condition. See a psychologist or a psychiatrist if you think there might be a problem.. Do not rely on a general practiiioner or a family practitioner. Their education and mindset do not prepare them to be any more helpful in this regard than your auto mechanic. If you see a pscyh, and hwat they are telling you just doesn't make since to you, find another. Their practice is very subjective and allows for some crack-pot positions. When you find one with whom you make progress, you will know you are making progress. If you feel like you are not making progress, then you almost certainly are not.
. Dreams do not follow a set of rules as to what you should dream and should not, except that dreams of inhumane behaviour are possible signs of psychotic trouble. If you are confident that you are coping well with the awake side of your life, do not put much emphasis on your dreams.
. Take my advice with a grain of salt. I read a lot, and have my personal experience to draw from, but I am not a professional in this field.

Answer 3

I don't think there is anything wrong with you, honestly. Dreams can be a powerful thing. What I and others have come to believe is that we use parts of our minds while we sleep, that we do not use while we are awake. Even though you may never have thoughts like you do when you are awake..there is a little bit of truth or reality to them. Will your husband ever beat your kids, maybe not, but there has been something in the past or intuition in a hidden part of your mind that thinks maybe so. I had a dream a couple of years ago that my brother was riding in a car with one of his buddies and a pistol his buddy was playing with accidentally went off and killed my brother. I told him and I could see it happening. If you want to get more symbolic, there are books on dream interputation where a snake=sex, and a whole list of things are mentioned..but for the most part, like I said.before.

Answer 4

no way you psycho at all. What I think is that it's pretty normal and I experienced something similar myself. I think your dreams represent a feeling of insecurity. I too used to have dreams in which I was in a very tough situation under matter what I did I could never escape them. These things changed when I found a very good friend to confide my feelings in. As for your kids I think it might probably mean that you have to sacrifice your personal life for them which is pretty normal for women.they sometimes feel that they have no personal life left as they have to devote so much time to the kids.

Please don't think that this is not normal and go to the doctor. as if my experience and have seen that doctors just want to make money.pray for help and am sure these dreams will go away or find someone to confide your thoughts in.

and to think about seeing psychiatrists and psychologists. They just keep asking questions one after another. You will feel there is too much to say and too little and they understand. It's because I don't take your life personally. You are just a plan to them they want to get money out of. So they will listen but not with their hearts.so they keep going round and round in questions about the same thing. No one can blame them for that.


sweet dreams and goodbye.

Answer 5

Sound like you may be into too much caffeine. Lay off of it and see.
But something is bothering you. you may go to a good hypnosis center or person and get good help. I know people who did so and it really helped.
My daughter was in a bad auto accident and nearly died she had repeated dreams like that and for several years was unable to drive. after three trips to a hypnosis guy she was ok with bioth driving and her dreams stopped.

Answer 6

Check out Sigmund Freud's book The Interpretation of Dreams.

You are probably just stressed out like everyone else.

Answer 7

Spirita explains your dreams
Visit http://spirita.blogspot.com/ and post your question as a comment. You'll get your FREE dream interpretation (as a comment, too) shortly. Just remember where you posted your question, your dream interpretation will be under the same section.

Answer 8

you definitely need to go to a doctor to check this out. Start at your family doctor or a general practitioner and tell them what you said here. Ask for a referral for help to resolve this. Bless you.

Answer 9

i dont think you have problems or anything... something from your childhood could be causing these kinds of dreams...

i suggest going to a sleep doctor

Answer 10

is your husband their father? if not, it all makes sense. they resent you for being with him, and he wont back you all the time because he doesnt want to be the bad guy. if thats not the case, i would recommend drinking heavily before bed time.