is it normal for a woman to be sexually attracted to other women, even though she has never slept with one, and has only ever dated men?
2006-11-18 15:56:21 · 21 answers · asked by He moonwalked on my <3 4 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I completely understand where you are coming from and yes it is totally normal. I had only ever dated guys before and had also never been with a woman...and then one day everything changed. I met the person I knew I was going to be with for the rest of my life and she happened to be a woman. I have never been so attracted to anyone in my whole life, both physically and emotionally. To some people gender may be a factor but for others it is not. And it also may not necessarily mean that you are bi either...it may just mean that you find certain woman attractive. For example, there are probably tons of people who find Angelina Jolie absolutely gorgeous, men and women alike, but that does not mean that all of the women who find her attractive are lesbians or even bi. I would just recommend that you explore the feelings a little bit more to decide if you are attracted to women in general, or if it is strictly appearance based (like with celebrities, etc.) Hope this helped!
2006-11-18 18:48:08 · answer #1 · answered by trouble in paradise 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why women only??
Men could not have experience with this??? I am 33, male AND altho you did not want my input I am throwing in my 2 cents in anyway
My X-wife of 12 years was BI. Out of the 20+ sexual partners that I have had I would estimate that 17 of them had admitted to have had sex with OR have had thoughts of Sex with another woman. I know if I was a woman (Damn I would be gay) what is not to love about women. Society is more accepting of woman/woman than man/man sex. I guess I could understand that because I am a man and I think man/man is gross but woman woman is awesome. But I guess what I am trying to say that you are not alone there are more women out there than you might think that feel the same way that you do. Many like you tho will keep this bottled up and never act like most of the other women that I was with.
Good Luck
2006-11-18 16:05:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you're gay, and in the closet, it is.
Look, there's no way anyone can answer that but you. I could tell you all about how I knew I was a lesbian and crap, but YOU have to accept it. But I can tell you right now, if you're wondering whether you're gay, 90% of the time that means you're not ENTIRELY straight. However, it doesn't mean you're gay or even bi.
There's this scale, made by Alfred Kinsey, (the Kinsey Scale XD) That says how gay you are in DEGREES. 0 is totally straight, 6 is totally gay. 3 is bi. Then there's all the stuff in between.
But anyways, nobody can tell you what you are but you. It's all about whether you decide to accept it or not.
If you're still curious, send me a message or something, but nothing obliged. Basically it all comes to you being willing to accept yourself the way you are. And the best way to do that is, maybe, get to know some gay people. Not so you can ask them anything, but just so you know you're not alone. Even a lead character in a book. Something. It makes it a lot easier... Or at least, it did for me.
2006-11-18 16:42:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course it is we all go thru this. Reguardless of what they say it's going to be something that you will know if the time is right. Go for it You only live once. If you choose not don't do it again, but if you do??? Women are more receptive to your needs emotionally and sexually. Sorry if I don't spell so right.
2006-11-18 16:17:58 · answer #4 · answered by carmella.2006 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes
2006-11-18 15:58:37 · answer #5 · answered by ascloud@sbcglobal.net 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anyone can find themselves attracted to anybody at anytime..it comes and goes...How you choose to respond to that attraction is up to you..I am, personally attracted to both men & women..and have been since at least 3rd grade...it doesn't make one good or bad...just human.
2006-11-18 16:01:23 · answer #6 · answered by evemarkra 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Women *constantly* come on here and ask this one. It's fairly common for women to be attracted to other women.
2006-11-18 16:53:15 · answer #7 · answered by carora13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure, honey, we are sexual, curious creatures. So why not. I have never questioned my attraction to women. It's always seemed natural to me. I like men as well but we ladies do know how to please one another. So what's wrong with at least trying it to see. You may love it.
2006-11-18 16:03:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
no longer likely (in the two case)! yet why would 'passing for time-honored' be a objective in existence? lots of the persons who claimed they have been 'popular' that i've got ever met have been tremendously freaky of their very own precise... Later Daze! =)
2016-12-10 11:33:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it's called being bi-curious.
Join the club.
2006-11-18 15:57:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋