I'm 13, and I use a vibrator, but sometimes when I'm done, I feel bad or wrong. Should I? I like the feeling but I just feel so wrong/bad sometimes..
2006-11-18 15:46:53 · 16 answers · asked by Courtney 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
No, there is nothing wrong with using a vibrator even at your age. As a matter of fact, it is quite normal to want to pleasure yourself, and it is much safer than sex.
If you have not actually inserted it into your vagina, I would like to advise you not to because you will break your hymen, which essentially takes away your virginity. What I mean by that is if you when you are older decide to have sex and you tell some guy that you are a virgin, yet when you have sex, if you don't bleed slightly afterward, he will know (unless he doesn't know about the whole hymen thing) that you have had some type of intercourse, be it with a vibrator or a penis.
I'm sure you have noticed by now you can orgasm easily without inserting it into your vagina.
If you have already inserted it - oh well - what's done is done.
2006-11-18 15:55:40 · answer #1 · answered by MissyChele 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's very normal so don't feel bad about anything, just enjoy the feeling the vibrator gives you.
2006-11-18 15:49:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure its not what you thinking about when your useing the vibe. Thats making you feel bad are dirty ? This tens to happen also.. Just remember your just fantassizing.. And theres nothing wrong about that.. Let you mind run free.. No need to feel bad.. Thank about it.. But this could be the reason you feel bad..
2006-11-18 15:56:31 · answer #3 · answered by David M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Woah. Thats a very young age. Im 13 too. But I know what you mean. I use water and let it "massage". I feel the guilt like I mletting down God but it jsut feels too good. But if youre feling extremely guilty pray to God and ask him to help you stop. Good luck. =]
2006-11-18 15:51:39 · answer #4 · answered by Daisy:) 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't feel guilty about it - it's a natural part of growing up and learning about yourself, and a large percentage of people continue to do it for the rest of their lives!
2006-11-19 23:03:11 · answer #5 · answered by glawster2002 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just curious...at 13 WHERE did you get a vibrator?
2006-11-18 15:48:48 · answer #6 · answered by BiancaVee 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Ok, you are have urges, so do I im 13 as well. Its a part of a boys and girls life. You body is changing its hormones. And were did you get that I mean wth! Im a boy and the urge is worse for us!
2006-11-18 15:50:05 · answer #7 · answered by Dark Knight 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No ! Don't think men feel guilty for using their hand ! It's not a big deal and is quite normal !
2006-11-18 15:48:56 · answer #8 · answered by IT'S JUST ME ! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry, you're not the only girl your age who masturbates, it's just not something girls really talk about as much as guys do. As long as you're not going out having sex or anything, there's nothing you should be ashamed of.
2006-11-18 15:50:30 · answer #9 · answered by myyahooanswersaccount1184 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Okay first whats a vibrator?? Just kiddin' I know what 1 is! OKay that's really young and where did you get one does your mom know?? I got alotta questions for ya!! ANd yeah you should feel guilty I would if I was you!!
2006-11-18 15:57:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 4⤋