Girls making fun of boys b/c girls have it harder?

Question

There is this very strange tease that has been going around in my school. Girls are making fun of boys because girls have it harder, so they think boys are wimps. It's really stupid, but what should I say to them if one does starte teasing me (it's happened once already and I had no clue what to say). Has this happened in your school?

Answer 1

Ask the person to give you specifics. How does she come to arrive at her conclusions? And what proof is there that girls have it harder? These people need to explain themselves clearly. Perhaps it will make them understand how foolish their notions are.

Answer 2

If only those people picking on others knew how their life was gonna turn out, I bet they would end up studying more. 1st of all, I find that just giving idiots like this a look and not saying anything. The look should convey disdain, mild amusement, anything but anger. Don't let them know they bother you. What a stupid argument anyway. How do these girls think they have it so much harder? They got their period, well, wah. Some day they get to have babies and men don't. Also women get to cry and wear makeup and enjoy all sorts of things men are not suppossed to enjoy.
You just study hard and ignore these shrews. Good Luck.

Answer 3

Ok so this is what you say. You look at them straight in the eyes, and you ask them "Have you ever had your penis cought in a zipper?"

Tell them women might have to undergo the 9 months, but if you hate the men for not having to do so, then leave the men and see where the population is in a few years. Women might have it hard, but life's tough, and some people in some ountries can't even afford food, now that's hard, and males in those countries are killed daily for fun, how's that for easy?

Tell them that, and tell them to read some books on Middle Eastern, and men's anatomy, because men have problems too.

Don't worry, you're not alone in the world that gets teased, a lot of males understand you, because we've all heared this before.

Answer 4

I think it's a heterosexualised society like the west that destroys male spaces by heterosexualising them, disempowers men through gender and sexual politics and gives immense powers to women over men in these mixed gender spaces ---- what is happening to you and other guys in the west is an inevitibility.

Whenever men are broken from other men, and their manhood and social position is defined and granted by women, their natural powers will be rendered ineffective and they will be subdued by women.

Ditto, when the social position of a man depends on his relationship with a woman. This gives immense powers to the women.

Bonobos are a classical example from the wild, where this happens. The females control the males and are socially superior to them.

But this is not natural for men. He has been weakened by gender and sexual politics. Unfortunately, its a part of the male gender that is responsible for this.

Men in the west are frequently socially, mentally and sexually exploited/ abused by women. Heterosexual spaces are extremely insensitive to the needs of boys/ men but very sensitive to the needs and privacy of women.

So women want to be everywhere where men are, but they want their separate toilets and get them. Had they been comfortable with men's toilet, men would lose this private space too.

Of course this means that men become more and more disadvantaged and socially inferior to women. Recent studies have suggested that boys fare less than girls because most teachers in heterosexualised worlds are females. Boys do best in male only schools. Likewise, health seeking behaviour of men suffers too when the care givers are females.

Answer 5

Not unless you're both not human!What about couples born on the same day and have good, lasting relationships? He can only make it work if he wants to.This relationship cannot be forced by either one of you. If you could see each other more often I think this could be the key to this,as you'd get used to each other more.

Answer 6

Your only getting teased. I got beaten up by a bunch of guys. Treat everyone with kindness.

Answer 7

Life is hard on men and women. Just because girls have periods doesnt mean that life is any harder on them.

Answer 8

Just say "Yeah, Right!" "You Wanna Arm Wrestle, We'll see who's tougher"?

If she wins, ask her for a date. She'll defend you from all those other bullie girls.

Answer 9

Just say, "Yea, right, at least you don't have to put up with a woman's crap for the rest of your life". That should shut them up unless they are a lesbian.

Answer 10

just look at them and say "i'm sure mommy and daddy buy you all your stuff and anything you need it is handed to you so then tell me how fricking hard do you have it?" hope this works!