We were in my aunts house , my aunt was in the kitchen making dinner and no one else was around , my aunt wasnt even paying attention,,I got hurt an a little mad, should I be mad? Or assume that there is more to it? We have been together for a long time! Its not a new relationship?
2006-11-18 15:05:41 · 16 answers · asked by KB 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
In my opinion, either she was uncomfortable with the situation (location, people that were there, etc.) or perhaps you needed a breath mint at the time and she didn't want to kiss you. I'm not saying that to be mean. I just know these things b/c sometimes when my husband wants to kiss me he has recently smoked or ate something stinky and I just don't want to kiss him at that point and time. Doesn't mean I don't love him.
2006-11-18 15:10:24 · answer #1 · answered by cherteddie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people are very shy when it comes to PDA (public displays of affection). Regardless if you aunt was paying attention or not, it didnt matter. Dont take it personally at all. If she is loving in private and polite to you in public then she is indeed just very shy. Dont be hurt or mad because that will just push her away.
2006-11-18 15:08:33 · answer #2 · answered by Lucky Me 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about it. I know some girls that are like that. She still loves you. I'm kinda the same way with kissing girls in public. I have some friends that are girls..not girlfriends lol and I give them a quick kiss on the cheek as a friendly kiss when I see them but I can't do it in public...I don't know why I gotta get over it lol :)
2006-11-18 15:10:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be too upset. Maybe she is a bit shy in public. Maybe just in front of family. It could be that she is giving your aunt and her house respect.
2006-11-18 15:13:37 · answer #4 · answered by quietgirla 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think of it extremely is disrespectful at any distance. i think of it extremely is okay to share a speedy kiss yet laying on good of the different have been infants might o.k. walk by utilising isn't the main polite element to do. save that habit for at abode. final twelve months my boyfriend and that i went to the coastline in the past it substitute into formally open. the only human beings there have been my boyfriend, myself and yet another couple who needless to say have been enticing in sexual intercourse on wide daylight hours. even nonetheless we've been all adults and there have been no infants around at that element, it sitll made me uncomftorable.
2016-11-25 19:06:12 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people are uncomfortable showing affection in any form in some situations. Your GF may be uncomfortable showing affection at her aunt's house...go figure..your Job should you choose to accept it , is to understand and love her anyway..
HTH
Keith
2006-11-18 15:11:38 · answer #6 · answered by DrK 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may be nothing to worry about, just being at the aunt's house..even if she wasn't looking..some women are funny like that...IF something is up you will know soon enough......
2006-11-18 15:09:21 · answer #7 · answered by Brenda Soooooooooooooooooooooooo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
totally agree with Steph L and DA LL Male - I know guys tend to feel hurt when this happens but it's definitely not the lady's intention to hurt, if this ever happens to you. PDA is definitely not for a lot of ladies.
2006-11-18 15:11:47 · answer #8 · answered by PikC 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO there is more to it...I don't like to kiss in public either.. all he gets is a small peck...
Some people are like that... don't get your feelings hurt... accept the way she is.. I'm sure you are a great guy and u can do that
2006-11-18 16:14:11 · answer #9 · answered by sam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be hurt, maybe she's not a fan of PDA's. I'm the same way with my husband, and we've been together for 5 years.
2006-11-18 15:07:48 · answer #10 · answered by Steph L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋