after a lot of ups and downs, my partner and i are having space from each other. Ive just undergone major surgery and the stress and strain of it all caused us to argue continuosly. My partner knows i am very depressed and says he loves me and wants to be with me but my head is telling me different and i dont know if its the depression. Dont get me wrong, he was there for me 100% during my surgery and after too, even looking after me, but the stress of it all meant that we need a break from each other. When we do see each other, the love and affection is still there but my head is confused and in turmoil as i keep thinking he doesnt love me. How can i stop these negative thoughts and start following my heart and not my head before it ruins our relationship.
2006-11-18 15:01:57 · 8 answers · asked by carolina 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
my surgery was 5 months ago from which im fully recovered but now suffering post traumatic stress
2006-11-18 15:02:36 · update #1
I may be young... But always follow your heart.. Its the only thing that
will be true to you all the way. Take a few days to consider whats happened and why your thinking negative thoughts. Do something heart stopping or something that will take your mind off things completely maybe that will help.
2006-11-18 15:37:02 · answer #1 · answered by Rulin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when pple love each other, nomatter how many ups and downs they go through they always stick together. its good that your partner has been there for u but has he been there for u because he feels sorry for you or he genuinely wants to be there. maybe u and ur partner do need this break so that you discover how much u do really love each other. now a break from each other may bring you closer to each other or it might pull you further apart. because you have had so much going on in your life e.g the surgery, that makes you feel unattractive, low esteem and that you can't really do things with your partner that u did because you feel uncomfortable. let me tell you something "man" love a woman who is confident 'big or small in size', who thinks highly of themselves and can carry themselves with dignity and respect; they do find these things very attractive. i know that u are probably recovering and u feel like you can't do anything but girl WAKE UP AND SMELL TE COFFE LUV COS HE AINT GOING TO HELP YOU HEAL YOURSELF YOU HAVE TO DO IT YOURSELF. if you love him go get him and lift yourself high, don't let anything come in your way. BE CONFIDENT AND CELEBRATE BEING A WOMAN.
does this help
2006-11-18 15:32:25 · answer #2 · answered by aquino m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
even as i replaced into youthful I said my head. This replaced into not obtrusive until eventually my heart informed me something very otherwise from the course i replaced into on and that i realized how unhappy i replaced into. in view that then I have said my heart or perhaps as it has not worked out as tremendous as i might want to have needed it, I do experience a lot truer to myself and hence no regrets...
2016-11-29 06:33:47 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Follow your heart, remember why you are with him and let the happy times and memories you have with him help you through this hard time.
2006-11-18 15:13:20 · answer #4 · answered by Steph L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would follow your heart. Just like there was this song I forget what is was by it went something like this listen to your heart before he tells you good-bye. Oh yes it was by Evanscence "Listen to Your Heart." :)!
2006-11-18 15:06:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
follow ur heart,ur head never can't feel about love,but ur heart knows about it and know about all consequens
2006-11-18 15:12:01 · answer #6 · answered by JEANNY G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't really matter which one you follow, you inevitably get hurt either way.
2006-11-18 15:08:30 · answer #7 · answered by Sierra One 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-11-18 15:42:46 · answer #8 · answered by lne o 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋