Me and my friend got drunk and ended up havin sex when we went on vacation hes definatley not the gay type but he really acts gay towards me. he admits that we had sex but is like im not gay. he has a gf.weve done little stuff like kiss, we always hugs me and we cuddle up when we watch movies.but he keeps sayin hes def not gay.he always flirts wit me.all our friends are like does blank like you cuz he flirts wit you alot! we talk about wat happened alot and he always is like we were really drunk and wat happened, happened. but i thought about it one night and we werent that drunk. and he remembers everything from that night, and if your drunk and remember it you were aware of wats goin on and could have stopped it if you didnt want to do it. hes got money and alot of clothes, but whenever i see him he has this pair of boxers on that i gave him.he doesnt tell anyone they mine but me.(i think thats fishy)but i feel like im in love wit this guy and cry over him every night! i need advice!
2006-11-18 14:54:58 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
tell him how you feel, and he deffanitly gay.
2006-11-18 14:56:37 · answer #1 · answered by shelbaby<3 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's definately into guys baby! Just give him some time. In the mean time have fun. Don't worry about him facing up to it. He will. They always do. Don't push it. Let him come out on his own time. As far as yourself, do you have problems with coming out? Tell him only if you think it's the right time. (how you feel about him) If he's a real friend he'll accept it regardless of how he feels for you. If someones not out it's harder for them to come to the surface & see them selves as such. Especially if they are already in a relationship. Focus on the friendship you have. Let him decide when he wants more. After all he's the one saying he's not gay. He has a girlfriend, that's what needs to change first. Good luck darlin.
2006-11-18 23:21:12 · answer #2 · answered by Ida 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would say this guy is either bi or gay. He needs time to figure it out and come out of the closet. Some people need years to be comfortable with their sexuality.
Either way, he's not ready for a long term relationship with you or any other guy.
2006-11-18 22:58:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I personly think he's bi and just scared to come outta the closet. or he's gay and just keeping a girlfriend so no one thinks he's gay. If he is messing around with you also then he has to be bi or maybe curious. The best thing to do is sit him down and say hey whats going on?
2006-11-18 22:58:28 · answer #4 · answered by crrousey 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
This guy likes you too and he is just scared of the fact that he is gay. From the signs you told me, he is definitely gay or bi. Maybe you could talk to him and you can be lovers or something maybe.
2006-11-18 23:04:05 · answer #5 · answered by lolly679 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I can't pick for him on whether he is bi or gay, but he is definitely feeling for you. Go for it!!
Thing is if u get ur heartbroken, you can mend
If he denies it and gets angry at you, he himself has issues to work out so give him space
If he accepts you, you gain love.
No matter the turn out, you have to sit this guy down and talk.
2006-11-18 23:32:40 · answer #6 · answered by thatgirl 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think he's looking for another chance to find out, you didn't say if you're single and gay yourself, i would say if he really is looking for a chance then why not try and give it to him but you'll also have to think of his g/f too. are they close? does he really love her/ would you like it if someone did that to your partner? as for it already happened once, that tells you he's bi but doesn't really have to mean he's gay he has a g/f
2006-11-18 23:13:59 · answer #7 · answered by jenna 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's confused - but I am sure you know that. I don't think you are going to get him to admit anything because he is not comfortable with his sexuality. Do you want to waste your time trying to 'change' him?
You need to cut your losses and move on.
2006-11-18 22:58:26 · answer #8 · answered by Daughtry-luver 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
So your friend (who is a guy) had sex with you (who is a girl) and you think he's gay?
2006-11-18 22:56:41 · answer #9 · answered by Izzy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he probably afraid to admit hes gay or hes bi or he might be a goy (gay people who dont admit they are gay)
2006-11-18 23:49:14 · answer #10 · answered by teenchatter10 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're both Gay.
2006-11-18 22:57:15 · answer #11 · answered by robert m 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋