Ok Here's The Story... The Guy That I Love We Used To Go Out For About 4 Years And We Just Broke Over The Summer. We Broke B/C He Was Always Doing Some Thing Wrong Whether it Be Flirting W/ Other Girls Or Getting Oral Sex From Other Girls B/C I Refuuse To Do It And When I Questioned Him About It He Would Say He Had To Get It From Somewhere. I Broke Up W/ Him B/C I Just Could Not Take Getting Hurt And Crying Myself To Sleeping Anymore. OKAY Here's About The Guy I Like..... He Is A Twin And He Is Very Cute And Funny. I Laugh Just Thinking About Him. He Has Being Trying to Get W/ Me For A Year Now. The Reason I Didn"t Get W/ Him B/C I was So Involved With The Guy I Love. I Really Want To Go Out W/ Him But The Guy I Love Is Holding Me Back B/C I Really Haven't Let Go Yet. Can Someone Help Me????
2006-11-18 14:22:38 · 5 answers · asked by deandra613 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Okay seriously what I think you should do is think, why would you rather be with the guy you "love" who can't wait until your ready? huh? I think you would be better off with the guy who loves you. Your ex of 4 years apparently doesn't love you because hes with other girls. But the other guy really loves you and has waited for you. Give him a chance he deserves one. If it doesn't work out move on or go back out with you ex. Its a win win situation. Good luck and just remember to think before you act, don't make bad decicions because you want to be with you ex.
2006-11-18 14:33:42 · answer #1 · answered by badf7 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tough one. I was in a similar situation last year around this time myself. Loving one and liking another. I almost lost the one I loved by dating the other guy. Just really think about it before actually risking it, although if he gets oral sex from other chicks it doesn't sound to me like he really cares about your feelings.. maybe you could compromise and try other ways on keeping him happy so that he won't to elsewhere. Stay strong and good luck!
2006-11-18 22:32:54 · answer #2 · answered by wondering one 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
look if that person you love really loved you he would have cherished you in the first place he wouldnt have let go and a relationship is not all about sex its about a special bond and trust between a couple it wouldnt hurt to give that one guy a try if he hasnt stop trying to get with you is bc he might even love you
2006-11-18 22:28:00 · answer #3 · answered by jonathanival 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stay away from the cheater.
2006-11-18 22:48:12 · answer #4 · answered by betty_htch 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
3SOME
2006-11-18 23:17:40 · answer #5 · answered by NOT IN USE 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋