how can couples heal jealousy?

Question

Both work with attractive coharts but have a war at home when either name arises.

Answer 1

Honesty and Communication......And trust exerises.
Best of Luck

Answer 2

Hi there,

Jelousy arises from anger about other things and is rarely to do with the person they are angry at. But what happens is that they project and put onto others what they themselves feel unhappy and angry about.

The only way to heal this is for each person to start feeling good about themselves and to deal with what the real issues are under the surface. Someone can trigger our anger, but they cannot cause it and we are all responsible for what we do and feel. They each need to own up to what they are really feeling worked up about because rivalry isn't the real issue.

It sounds like they both want to be better than each other and so that means that neither of them accept and like each other as they are already as individuals. They clearly don't like themselves very much and why they put the other one down to make themself feel better - but this is a temporary fix and does not resolve the problem.

Trying to put the other person down to feel better is a quest to feel powerful and neither of them feel powerful in their own ways because they are doing what they are to each other. They need to start accepting themselves on their own merits and like who they are as individuals or else the working relationship they have will be a long bitter rivalry for years to come.

Answer 3

guys dont think with there brain so thats a hard one to answer.If your married and ther faithful thats good ,if there is no trust move on.

Answer 4

wow it is difficult to do. if you figure it out gimme a call i need to know that answer too. =)