me and my g/f have been goin togetha for half a year now she moved about 2 weeks after we started goin together but we kept the relationship goin i have past up many oppurtunities because i though we really had somethin but she calls me less and less i think she's found some one else but i dont wanna end the relationship on the note of me feeling unloved without havin any proof but this girl that lives in the same apt complex as i do i find her very attractive and as big as the complex is we often runinto one another and i have caught her follin me a time or two ( and i think she has caught me to) stay faithful i gettin harder and harder i dont wanna watch my future walk away from me. any advice good or bad is welcomed.
2006-11-18 14:19:39 · 12 answers · asked by HP 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Either try to continue the relationship you have. If the distance is too much and the relationship is basically over, it's time to formally end it. That way both of you know that it's over and can move on without hurting the other by cheating.
2006-11-18 17:01:19 · answer #1 · answered by carora13 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First, talk to your girlfriend and ask her why she calls you less and less. Long distance relationships usually don't work out, but it depends on how far apart the distance is. If she is only an hour or 2 drive away, it can work out as long as both of you are committed to it working. Why did your girlfriend move? Did she ask if you wanted to move also? Are you able to see each other at least every other weekend? Get it all out in the open with your girlfriend and then you can decide together if the relationship is worth trying to work out over the distance or if it is better for you to separate now and avoid any hurt feelings down the road.
2006-11-18 14:33:24 · answer #2 · answered by χριστοφορος ▽ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well now Love is the key here , it seems you are truly in Love with her as for her not trusting you , she seems to be insecure you may need to assure her of your true feelings let her know that she is the light of your life, and how she lights up a room with just her smile, show her that she her self is all that you want, and you say that you work together I'm sure their are other girls their as well do they seem to talk to you often , and do you find your self being overly friendly with them , your girlfriend may be taking your kindness towards other girls the wrong way , let her know that she is the one for you and that when you work among other girls you will have contact with them from time to time , but that it is strictly as coworkers, and again assure her that she is your girl. Then it could be her age , some girls and guys when they are younger and just starting to date and fall for some one they seem to get to comsumend with the other person and feel that he or she should not spend any time with no one but them and that's not good for either of you, so invite her to a nice romantic dinner, talk to her about your feelings ask her of her feelings for you , let her know that it is really bothering you that she mist trusts you and that trust next to Love in a relationship is very important, for the both of you , and you will have to let her know that with out trust on both of your parts their is no relationship, now i know it may sting a bit if she gets upset and calls it off but Honestly would you rather that happen now at this very early stage of your relationship, or 5 years and 2or 3 kids from now , you will be better off either way meaning you will have cleared up your problem after your dinner and your girl Friend will be at ease with your feelings for her or she will walk way , and at that time you will be able to know your self that you did what was rite and all that you could , and you will move on with that much more life experience in your corner. Well good luck.
2016-05-22 02:12:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Distance makes the heart wander...so go for the wandering. Romance just fades away when parted. Forget about the 'faithful, ' or you will be very alone when you get the letter, "Dear John......"
2006-11-18 14:23:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are SOOOOOO COOOOOOOOOL the way you use abreviations and small letters instead of capitals. The way you rite the way peepol seem to tok. Wow! It is SOOOOOOO impressive.
Hey, dummy, if she's really your girlfriend you wouldn't have toask this question and you know it.
2006-11-18 14:43:16 · answer #5 · answered by quietwalker 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well i guess u should confront her with it. How far away did she move? Do u have email contact? with\without phone and\or mail. If she is ignoring u, she might be telling u something.
2006-11-18 14:25:34 · answer #6 · answered by tracksuprstar 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok let me guess u just broke up with her and ur looking for a bi girl (lol) o yea send me a request and just maybe i'll see,plus i want more friends.
2006-11-18 14:35:12 · answer #7 · answered by not_a_girly_girl93 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would set things straight with your girlfriend first.....long distance relationships are hard and not for everyone....if things are working there end it and then move on......
2006-11-18 14:22:45 · answer #8 · answered by askaway 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She moved= you are single=move on!
2006-11-18 16:13:17 · answer #9 · answered by evemarkra 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just you thinking about it means that you do not care for her.
i suggest you call her and end it
2006-11-18 14:22:39 · answer #10 · answered by ☺Everybody still loves Chris!♥▼© 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋