Okay I have another question. i'm 19 and my boyfriend is about 31 years old and lately he's try to go further i think with me. when we kiss like while listening to movies he seems to want it to lead to sex everytime. i just don't know what to do i'm a virgin and i don't know if i want to have sex yet with him. but i don't want to loose him also....
2006-11-18 13:31:26 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
If he really loves you, or at least respects you, he'll wait until you are ready. If you let him get his way, you'll lose him after you give in.
2006-11-18 13:39:11 · answer #1 · answered by elgil 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
look he should respect your boundaries. if you do want to have sex ask yourself how will i feel about this in one or two years. also ask yourself if this is the guy you are not going to marry don't you think you should wait until the guy that you are going to marry comes along so you can give him something that you can not give to anybody else your virginity and after you lose it you might regret it. and if you do tell him no make sure you have his full attention, and if he still tries to pressure you to have sex with him he is not worth it ANYBODY who does not respect your wishes does not really respect you and no matter who you are you always should be respected.
2006-11-18 13:37:04 · answer #2 · answered by N M 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you're not ready for sex then dont do it. If your boyfriend loves you like a real boyfriend should then he'll understand that you need time. If he doesn't understand then you don't need him... you can do way better! Hey, remember this though.....
"no guy is worth crying over,
and when you find one that is
...he wont make you cry"
2006-11-18 13:38:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
TELL HIM you're not ready. Communication is the key.
If he leaves you because of it, he did not really love you and you're better off without the loser.
If he respects your wishes and does not pressure you, he's a prince.
Anyone who pressures you to do something you're not ready for, is not worth being with.
2006-11-18 13:47:07 · answer #4 · answered by Nancy 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell him no and see his reaction.. he will understand and not get angry but more than ever, he will be MAD. That's the natural reaction but hold on to yr opinion. Don't give in just for the sake of holding on to a relationship.. he should respect whtever u decide and tat's love
2006-11-18 13:41:00 · answer #5 · answered by The Babe 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are not ready then there is nothing he can do. and if you tell him no and that your not ready and he leaves you, then it's his loss. don't ever do anything that your not ready or feel like your ready to do.. your virginity is something special that you have and you should wait untill you feel like your ready,
2006-11-18 15:02:23 · answer #6 · answered by Jen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk about major age difference...tell him you're not sure if you're ready to have sex yet
2006-11-18 13:36:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋