get my mom to kiss and hug me?
Just because I'm 16 doesnt mean im not her child.
Why is it wrong?
I tried hugging her the other day she shoved me off. Now she does it all the time.
I wanna be able to hold her in my arms, just love her.
how do i make her not so distant?
2006-11-18 13:24:44 · 6 answers · asked by jay 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I think it is important for parents to display affection to their children.
I feel open and honest communication is warranted here! Let your mom know what you need from her, this is sad to say but she should already know this. She just might be at the point in her life that she feels the umbilical cord needs severed because you will be leaving the nest soon and she is having emotional issues with this.
2006-11-18 15:25:14 · answer #1 · answered by karen_doles 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My son is 19. He doesn't want me to hug or kiss him - not for the last 3 years. I wish I could just hold him like I used to. Your mom probably just isn't comfortable hugging her grown son. She is aware that you are a man now and she is not able to deal with it yet.
2006-11-18 21:28:28 · answer #2 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try giving her a hug. It'll surprise her and she'll love it. Pretty soon she'll get comfortable and she'll want to hug you everyday. It's scary being a mom and knowing someone actually needs you, but don't worry...she must love you...maybe she needs to feel, see, or hear how much you love her, so give it a try...give mama a hug and just walk away! It'll really throw her off but it'll also really make her day!
2006-11-18 21:28:41 · answer #3 · answered by Green Fairy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to her and tell her how you are feeling and then take baby steps after that is my best guess.
2006-11-18 21:26:52 · answer #4 · answered by inquisitive 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why is she so distant?? find out first
2006-11-18 21:26:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-11-18 21:31:45 · answer #6 · answered by lme o 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋