I have had this friend since 7th grade (im in 9th now) we were really good friends in 7th, although she really ticked me off at certain times. In 8th we went through a really tough time where she spread rumors about me, cheated off of me, got me in trouble at school. I feel sorry for her because I am her only friend at school, but she has betrayed me so many times and she is destracting me from my school work. Also, get this she even started to act like a jerk to my boyfriend. I really need some advice. Should I keep her or dump her? If i should dump her, how should I do it? Please help me.
2006-11-18 13:24:40 · 8 answers · asked by jessica_sexgrl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I would say that if you are feeling this strongly about this that you do need to get rid of her. Since you have given her chances she does not deserve anymore. I would say as far as getting rid of her you should either give her a note explaining all of your reasons or you could e-mail her, or if you really want to get it over with I would just say to go with the direct approach and tell her face-to-face.
2006-11-20 13:56:35 · answer #1 · answered by smartgrl_09 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say she is not a friend and start out by telling her that but be the maturer one and be respectful at the same time. Let her know how much you have been feeling, basically what you said in this question and leave it at that. People change over time and grow apart.
2006-11-18 21:31:15 · answer #2 · answered by janet_67_1998 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friends do not talk s**t about friends! Either she is your friend or she it not! you have to decide for your self your want people like this in you life. If she is not a good influence yo have to decide if you want to go down the same road as she is! Feeling sorry for people only let's them take advantage of you!
I say get a new friend, but it's really something only you can decide! Good Luck!
2006-11-18 21:30:48 · answer #3 · answered by littlegoober75 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
friends are supposed to lift you up, sounds like this girl is trying to bring you down. no wonder you are her only friend, that's because you are the only one that will put up with her. dump her.
2006-11-18 21:34:58 · answer #4 · answered by Mel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should go up to her and tell her that you dont want her acting like tha anymore with you r boyfriend ,that she is acting extremly wierd and that you need to see whats happening . maybe she is having problems at home. Who knows. !!! talk to her. Seriosl!!
2006-11-18 21:45:11 · answer #5 · answered by spongefan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldnt dump her permantly. but i would tell her you care about her but until she gets her life straight you cant spoil yours for her childesh play. just make shure she knows why your doing this she needs to know this is wrong.
2006-11-18 21:34:29 · answer #6 · answered by valerie s 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dump her by not contacting her. Slowly wean yourself away
2006-11-18 21:27:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur gonna have to tell her to shape up or you're dumping her.
she's not a friend, she's a brat if she's all that you say she is.
2006-11-18 21:30:57 · answer #8 · answered by concrete_girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋