Baby mama drama from my friends ex-girl...what should i do?

Question

this individual and i are friends. We have been intimate more than once. This morning i received 2 phone calls and a voicemail between the hrs of 5:30 and 6:00am. His baby moms left me a vague message saying she wants me to answer my phone when she calls me again tomorrow. i enjoy this individuals company but i dont need to deal with this stuff.

Answer 1

Then don't deal with it.

Whether or not you enjoy this person's company, the fact is whenever there are unwed or divorced parents "out there" they'll always be "out there".

Besides, if he's the type to have one child with an ex-girlfriend it doesn't say much about his character.

I think you should find someone who doesn't have babies with other people. Its too much of a mess.

Answer 2

you are right you don't need to deal with it. did you tell your friend about these phone calls? if not i would, let your friend deal with this girl.more than likely all she wants to do is tell you they are still doing it with each other blahhh bla bla. so,if you don't want to deal with her then don't pick up the phone. but i know i would just so that i could laugh at her. lol