2006-11-18 13:18:09 · 22 answers · asked by lovercheerleaderbabe 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
sweetie, you have to tell somebody who can put a stop to this. your sister is a child and this "guy" is a grown man. I just can't help but think something's got to be wrong with a man who would have those kinds of feelings for a 14yr. old girl. and I certainly hope nothing has happened between them, but if they have had sex, it is considered statutory rape by law and he needs to be put away for a long time. if you can't tell your parents, or there's no one that you can talk to, call the police, and tell them what's going on. they will put a stop to it. and your sister will thank you later for doing the right thing.
I wish you the very best.
2006-11-18 13:30:38 · answer #1 · answered by atiana 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you do is, tell your parents. First of all, what is a guy that age doing with a 14 year old. If you love her, please tell someone. This is not even right. This guy is up to no good. A person 20 years old doesn't need to be with a girl under age. Get help now, and I could not be more serious. Only harm will come to your little sister. Tell your parents. NOW1
2006-11-18 13:22:44 · answer #2 · answered by june clever 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
TELL your parents now if they dont know. What can a 20 yr old man see in a 14 yr old girl.
2006-11-18 14:09:10 · answer #3 · answered by firefly06 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you love your sister? If so, the answer is simple. It is not abnormal for a young girl to like someone older. It is, however, not normal and is very dangerous for a girl if an older person is interested in her. Tell some one you trust - before it is too late.
It is better to have your sister mad at you and safe than the other way around.
2006-11-18 14:51:04 · answer #4 · answered by Long Gone 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they are having sex, it's considered statutory rape in many countries.
Most if not all relationships of this nature are terribly screwed up. A sane and normal 20 year old should not be interested in a 14 year old.
You should tell your parents first, and try to talk to your sister out of it together.
2006-11-18 13:22:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
This should be reported to your parents. If they do nothing then tell your school counselors. This is wrong! It is also illegal. It is your parent's duty to take care of both of you and raise you right. Too bad you have to take over for them now.
2006-11-18 13:20:53 · answer #6 · answered by physandchemteach 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would say He is up to no good! If you REALLY don't like the guy, then you can call cops on him for underage dating.. others. just talk to your sis and tell her how you feel. introduce her to someone her age.. good luck.
2006-11-18 13:21:28 · answer #7 · answered by mercy me 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Easy - call the police. Regardless whether its consenual on not - it is against the law.
2006-11-18 13:20:42 · answer #8 · answered by totalstressor 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell your parents to put to a stop NOW. I don't care how nice he is. It's wrong.
2006-11-18 13:22:00 · answer #9 · answered by Christina Leah 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Call the LAW
2006-11-18 13:20:29 · answer #10 · answered by Sharon B 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋