men and cheating, what can women do?

Question

why do men cheat?
will i be cheated on?
what if i was gorgeous and smart, great in bed, sweet and loving, and full of spirit and life. what if i was your absolute dream girl, would you still cheat? i mean really, is there no hope of loyalty? why are guys more loyal to their friends than they are to their own wives? please be honest.

i have never been cheated on. what about true love? why cant humans mate for life? i wish i was a vole or a swan. men and women cant you see that when you cheat you are basically making a fool out of your mate? if u cheat on me u are saying you disrespect me, u take me for a fool. there is no hope, true love is dead. 24 years old, my 24 years have revolved around the possibility of true love. i beleaved in love, but whats the point, we are not swans.

Answer 1

I think you aren't being fair! all men don't cheat. My wife is the one who has cheated on me! And I thought I was being the Ideal husband but I found out wrong. I'm sorry that you think all men are cheaters, but keep in mind if it wasn't for the willing woman out there men wouldn't be able to cheat.

Answer 2

You have some serious insecurity issues which is one of the reasons why men cheat, they cannot handle a insecure woman. The questions you are asking cannot be answered with a real answer. You need to do a bit more growing up and to explore the world and reality a bit more before you even consider dating, you obviously have no clue as to the way the world revolves...

Answer 3

Women cheat to, not all but they cheat too. Not all men cheat, but some do. I don't care what any body says about something was missing at home for them to cheat, that is a bunch of crock. My man could not have had it better than he did, his life with me was all but on a sliver platter, he was treated like a little king. And he still cheated on me, there was nothing that I would have not done for him at all. He even told me one day that nobody had ever treated him as good as I did and he didn't know how to act. I just told him that you sure don't act the way he did and cheat. I ended up leaving him for cheating on me. That was his wake up call......it did wake him up and now he is starting to change his ways.........got a long way to go yet, but he is getting there. My point here is ....it don't make any difference how good you are to them, if they are going to cheat, then they are going to cheat on you. Like mine he just needed a wake up call and he got it. I am not saying this will work for every male or female out there that cheats on their mate, but it did for us. There is no excuse what so ever for cheating on anybody at all. If you are not happy with the one you have, break up or get a divorce before you start seeing someone else, do not cheat. It shows you have no morals about your self, no respect for your self or the others that are involved. The ones that are cheated on, they are hurt beyond what words can say.

Answer 4

people cheat because the opportunity is there, and the timing is right. they cheat because they are not happy with what they have, and someone else comes along, pretending to be perfect and she listens to them, makes them feel very special, and it stokes their already low ego. doesn't matter how pretty we are, or that we are good people, odviously we weren't valued and loved like we thought. its just amazing how loyal someone can be to a friend or acquantance,and not really give a hoot about their wives, i know because it happened to me. couldn't understand why i was always put last, so i asked why, wish i had never, he said because i never cared for u, they just don't value us, or care about the consequences, they aren't looking into the future, and can't see the damage and hurt they cause that they can never take back.

Answer 5

The problem today is that we are living in a ME MYSELF AND I society and people have become very selfish. Society teaches men and women today that relationships are like baseball cards(things to be traded and thrown away) . They have forgotten about the true magic of love. Love is a pure and unselfish feeling and it can only grow through acts of unselfishness and kindess. People have closed their hearts to each other and have stopped communicating.

Guys these days have forgotten about romance, being honest, kindness, warmth. Most men think of women as a bootycall and think its ok to use fake lines on them. The key to truely loving someone is to open all of your heart to them but that involves taking a chance. You cannot love completely unless u trust completely

Answer 6

No sorry i would not, tempting but no. I have been in situations like that!
2 reasons why i would not
My wife would take everything including my baby boy
I would become a hypocrite, i bash cheaters.
The reason why guys cheat is mainly rush and adventurism. When a couple gets married the wife almost becomes a mother like figure, gives cretisms, rules ect. now a guy get a oppertunity to cheat its breaking the rules.

Answer 7

Men cheat simply because there is something wrong with relationship. It may also be that they do not get the contentment they want. Pretty, gorgeous or not it happens with everybody. The best relationship for me would be something that was establish with friendship because you get to talk about everything. Remember communication gap is one of the root cause of cheating.

Answer 8

Don't have a wife, so I don't cheat. The truth is that women hold the cards when it comes to sex. As long as there are women with their legs open, it invites men over, sorry to say that.

Answer 9

Listen I hate to break it to you but women cheat too.
Some men do cheat ,just like some women do , not all men cheat, you need to find the right man, sounds like you found just jerks.

Answer 10

When we start dating women, they act like women. Then BOOM, they start treating us like they are our mothers. We are looking for women, not mothers, that is why we cheat! A successful relationship is truly measured by how long our women can maintain the emotional gap of being our lover, not our mother.