A woman wrote in and said that she had put a diaper on her husband because he came home drunk and passed out and spent lots of money at a casino - her revenge was undressing him in his sleep and putting a diaper on him and he was enraged.
I don't know what you people think but everyone saw this as a joke. Personally I didn't and thought that this was the most humiliating thing to do to a man drunk or not. I think it is okay to scream and maybe get upset, but humiliation is something else and shows no respect nor value for the person's feelings.
Getting drunk and spending money aimlessley is often and usually always a cry for help and because men are not taught to be open like women are, it makes it all that much more upsetting to read that she had done this. Degredation is just one of the lowest things you can do to someone. Why didn't she get out if she wasn't happy or be mature enough to see this as a cry for help?
2006-11-18 13:15:12 · 17 answers · asked by Shikira-trudi 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I agree with you in that humiliating another person devalues them (and yourself).
2006-11-18 13:22:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I personally didn't get to read that one, but why are you getting so defensive about it, it didn't happen to you, or are you angry that a woman took control and wanted to show her husband that he needs to grow up and stop acting like a child going out drinking and gambling, He is a married man, why did he not take his wife with him, I mean I know that men go out with their friends when they are married but it OBVIOUSLY sounds like this is not the FIRST TIME he has done this to her. SO I would have to say good for her and I found it to be a bit amusing as well. You need to understand that just because you are a MAN that you can't use the sorry excuse of him not being able to express himself because of his gender. Come up with a better one than that excuse. And are you a psychologist, that you can say that this is a cry for help from him. What part did she or he state that he wants help? Can you just see it for what it is he is a LOSER who obviously got what he had coming to him. And if he needs help then HE needs to be a REAL MAN and go and get it, we as woman are not your mothers or babysitters.
2006-11-18 13:57:04 · answer #2 · answered by melissa052572 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's hard to know if the things people write on here are actually happening or if they are just imaginary. If this were a real situation, I suspect that the woman had already tried to get him help, but men frequently refuse help even when it is obvious that they desperately need it. Perhaps this was the case here. I agree that her behavior was inappropriate, but perhaps she didn't know what else to do.
2006-11-18 14:04:58 · answer #3 · answered by Gypsy Girl 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Did you ever consider that this is something that happens all the time? Maybe he blew the rent and grocery money and put them in a bad situation. I am sure he needs help but he has to want help first. The first step is his to take. Maybe this was a wake up call for him and he realized that he couldn't live like this anymore. Sometimes it takes something HUGE to open someones eyes up to the fact that they have a problem. Sure it was degrading but sometimes we have to take the revenge we can get. It may be the only time in her life that she gets to feel like she won one battle.
2006-11-18 13:36:07 · answer #4 · answered by country girl 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I have to agree that I though it was funny...seriously, he got soooo drunk that he didn't even wake up as she completely undressed him and PUT A DIAPER on him... like I responded to her, he needs to cut back on the drinking a bit, and think he had it coming.
2006-11-18 13:55:48 · answer #5 · answered by Jackie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he wan't to act immature an irresponsible - a total drunk needs to be taken care of and so does a baby. I personally would not waste my time, but to each their own. If this is her way of doing things than he probably knows that.
2006-11-18 13:18:24 · answer #6 · answered by totalstressor 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I spose it would be entertaining for her, but it could ruin the marriage if it's not already broken, and now she will have to be on guard all of the time, because there is probably a payback coming.
2006-11-18 17:11:12 · answer #7 · answered by Jason 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first off I think it was disrespectfull of him to get drunk and pass out her. And I think what she did is rather funny. It could have been worse she could have undreesed him and put him out on the porch.
2006-11-18 13:19:51 · answer #8 · answered by Samantha B 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Good point but you must walk in her shoes to judge her. Actually you're not supposed to judge anyone but I am just giving you the benefit of the doubt.
2006-11-18 13:18:08 · answer #9 · answered by inquisitive 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
lighten up, she could have shaved his eyebrows or dipped his hand in warm water or covered his face in makeup or shaved his eyebrows if she were more vindictive. He messed up.
2006-11-18 14:21:01 · answer #10 · answered by Johnny 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋