Okay I've known my friend travis for,four years and this other guy for about three months.I love them both very much.Travis knows that I love him but the other guy (jacob) doesent.and jacob is my boyfriend! I also love him very much....Here comes the problem I really don't know who I want to be with. Travis lately tho has been treating me like crap but all is good now.He makes me happy .. Sometimes.Now jacob he makes me happy all the time tells me how much he loves me does all this sweet stuff for me but lately I cant stop thinking of travis. Which I know is probly wrong but I just can't help it.I really have no idea what i'm going to do please help and try not to be to mean i'm only trying to figure this out. I dont want to hurt them. Because travis wants me to be with him.. Jacob really doesnt want me around him!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-11-18 13:14:48 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
ok this is to simple. looks like jacob is the one i would go with. I lived
my whole life being treated like crap from guys what i would have gave just to have a guy treat me nice. if you got one now that is good to you you better keep him as long as you can cause life is to hard to go through alone. me i am to mad at men and i have to go through life alone now. dont put yourself through that. god bless you.
2006-11-18 13:20:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe the reason Travis treated you the way he did was because it was hurting him to know that you are with Jacob. but needless to say you have asked and answered your own question here.when you said that Jacob does not want you around. so dump Jacob and give it a try with Travis.
2006-11-18 13:52:57 · answer #2 · answered by here to help 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You lost me about half way through. The general rule of thumb is that if you aren't happy with your guy anymore then get out of the relationship. If you aren't happy with your guy because some other guy looks more appealing than stay with your guy. The guy you don't have is always going to be more appealing if you've been in a relationship for awhile. It's a case of the grass being greener.
2006-11-18 13:18:18 · answer #3 · answered by lady25mo2001 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't have a decision to make. You just said Jacob doesn't want you around, so he already decided not to wait for you to make up your mind.
2006-11-18 13:23:02 · answer #4 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go with what ever one you feel you can trust and that treats you better! Hope this helps!!
2006-11-18 13:17:02 · answer #5 · answered by gymnastics617 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People are really gonna think you made this up
2006-11-18 13:17:18 · answer #6 · answered by D2die 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen to your heart and go w/ whoever you want. not both at once though.
2006-11-18 13:20:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are a royal pain in the ***
2006-11-18 13:16:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋