My moms husband wants a divorce because he thinks she spends to much money, but it is her money not his. He said he want to divorce her but still let her stay there after married for 9 years. Do you think there is someone else or is he just money crazzy? He keeps saying hit the road and then changing mind, but still wants divorce if she stays. She is now staying with me and he has not called since she left and it has been 48 hours. What should she do. Let him go or stay?
2006-11-18 12:45:31 · 19 answers · asked by desiree d 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Sounds like something else is going on with this guy. He wants a divorce, but it is okay if she stays? Of course he wants her to stay....and pay the bills. Probably cook and clean too. He wants his freedom by divorcing her, but isn't so unhappy that he wants her leave? Yeah, right! Most people get a divorce to get away from their spouse. I guarantee you he is having an affair. Tell your mom to be strong. Divorce this guy and take everything that she can.
2006-11-18 13:12:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She should go on a shopping spree first. Then she should hire a really expensive and smart lawyer to divorce that cheating husband and show that she means business when she spends HER money.
2006-11-18 20:48:57 · answer #2 · answered by tofu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him go. It isn't going to get any better and she has already taken the first step to leave by coming to stay with you. Mine told me if I didn't like it I could leave and I wish I had. Now I am 65, unhappy, and, if I had left, I could be with my first and only true love again.
2006-11-18 21:05:22 · answer #3 · answered by gw 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is hard to answer this without knowing all the details, but just going from what you Have said, take the money and run honey.
2006-11-18 20:48:15 · answer #4 · answered by Angel A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it's a tumor.
Even billionaires get fed up with their wives excess spending. Aristotle even dumped Jackie O.
2006-11-18 20:50:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
problem number one when your married there is no her money his money. he probably keeps changing his mind because he wants to be with her but doesn't like her spending habits, marriage is about team work and communcation
2006-11-18 20:55:25 · answer #6 · answered by Randy L 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He wants to have his cake and eat it too. It's HER money, and none of his business how she spends it...let him go girl. If it's your house, tell him to get out. I hope you signed a Prenup! Get yourself a good lawyer.
2006-11-18 20:49:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all when you are married there is no my money it is both of yours money. A marriage is a partnership. Not ME ME ME!! As far as I am concerned leave because both of you are only thinking of yourselves.
2006-11-18 21:10:31 · answer #8 · answered by Right Wing Extremist 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Man that is messed up. Unless they see a marriage counsellor you guys should stay away and move on.
2006-11-18 20:47:46 · answer #9 · answered by Therapist King 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to go sleep with his money. I would not put up with that type of thinking.
2006-11-18 21:04:06 · answer #10 · answered by docie555@yahoo.com 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋