PLEASE GUYS I AM CRYING TO DEATh!!?

Question

Heres the story:

Heres the story:

Okay me and Komal were Best friends since last year in 5th grade and now we are in 6th grade.. Last year she said she talked to Zac Efron on the phone because one of her friends knew him but she lied and said she did and so she said her friend didn't know Zac but Komal said she talked to Zac on the Phone so there is a HUGE lie.... right there... and she can be so nice.. we can be such dorks chillin and stuff and being cool but I hate when she has her preppy side.. I hate when she leaves me out.. like when she is taling to raman,ericka,nikki,or alexix or whoever.. I know we were great friends but I told her before to quit and 1 million times she did after I told her to quit acting like that.. i want her to stop.. She would be my best friend if she would just quit being like that and leaving me out... Today I spent the night well last night and when we woke up this morning her and raman got on the computer and thye sat in the chair together leaving me behind but there is raman just chatting with komal for like an hour and me just sitting well actualy standing behind them with nothign to do for about an hour..... then raman is like whats wrong and she kept asking me that and I am like.. ok... I am bored.. KOmal gets all like ughh... thats nice to know*preppy noise* whateevr.... or somethign like that and it just hurts my feeling because I want her to stop and I miss the old her. Right now while I am typing this I am crying and I miss her and I know she is in my heart in the lead somehow and I still miss every time we had laughs and all the times she made me smile I know I will all ways miss her someone how and I wish she could just say sorry and mean ti this time and neevr act liek this again!! This is sadder then any of my families deaths............................. I MEAN IT!!!!!!!!!!!!! I lvoe her like a sis.... I wish she would be back to normal! I hope this gets passed on to Komal because I miss Komal! I did this because I want her to know how I feel but I told raman today that I was bored because Komal asked I mean raman did and then komal got all mad... and now komal is like your self fish and on myspace when i told her how i felt she is like go jump off a cliff... this realyhurts my feeligns and I dont see how she is crying!! those were the rudest words! now her cousin taran and srry taran if you read this but she is like getting all amde and she is like dont say false thigns about my cousin adn these arent false.. these are true...

PLEASE HELP THIS IS THE SADDEST DAY OF MY LIFE!! I want to be her friend and all but I am just so sad and I dont think shell let me and I know I didnt do ANYTHING wrong!

Answer 1

uhhhh....anyone else dizzy?

Answer 2

Well, as people age, especially during this time of life, people tend to step on each other for their own benefit, forgetting about the past. All the advice I really have, is to be patient. Eventually they'll see the error in their ways and come around. I know it may seem like a disaster now, but it too shall pass, and you can always make new friends. I had to move every two years because my dad was in the army and I was able to make friends everywhere I went. They are probably just going through a funky phase and just want to be known as a "popular" person. Which, in the grand scheme of things, is pretty pointless. They are just insecure and need to feel better about themselves. It's not worth crying over.

Answer 3

Wow, my head is spinning. I know you are in 6th grade and all, but in the future, don't write such a long, drawn out novel. Most people won't read it and they will just give you stupid answers.

If that were me, I would just distance myself a little from all those girls, just for a while. I wouldn't be mean or anything, but just don't be so tight with them all for now. Eventually, your best friend will realize that you haven't been around and she will start to miss you and she'll start calling you and wanting to spend time with you again. Then you can tell her how it hurt you when she treated you like that. Every best friend relationship goes through stuff like that at one time or another. It's normal, and usually when you go through something like that, after you "get back together" as friends again, you are even closer. But as for now, be sweet, say hi when you see her, if she invites you somewhere and the other girls will be there, politely say no, I think I'm just gonna stay home today. You don't have to make a big deal over it. She'll come around. Be patient.

Answer 4

I know how you feel. My friends use to do that but I didn't have the guts like to do to tell them in thier faces. I give you props for that. BUt if they don't stop even after you've told them then they aren't worth being your friends. There are so many people that will treat you better. You may feel really bad becasue the whole school knows you guys and to tell you the trtuh I think you feel sad is becasue your afraid how people will react to you about this and also becasue these are the people you've been hanging out with and you really don't have any other friends(no offense) except for them. ALl I want to say is don't waste your time for poeple that don't care enough to make you smile. Trust me you'll be better off. Look what happened to me a loooooonnnnnnnnggg time ago.

Answer 5

Oh wow. Im sorry you are in such a bad situation.

But some people change as they grow older, they want to be with the "in" crowd more. And not just to be popular, it has to do with the people you want to be friends with.

I used to be dorky, and now im preppy. My friend had a similar problem with me, she was left behind.
We arent as good friends now. But we still chill out sometimes. And to tell you the truth, sometimes I am embarrassed around her.

So maybe, as much as you love her, you need to show her how strong you are and move on. But dont be snappy and stuff, smile at her once in a while, ask her whats up every few days. Maybe she is just a different person, but I promise oyu can find a way to still be friends.

Good luck. I hate sticky situations like these...

Answer 6

I'm a long-message questioner too and I totally get what you're saying. And that's a toughie. Maybe you said this but just to be sure, did you talk to Kormal? I mean REALLY TALK to her? Ask her what you did and what you can do to change your relationship and fix it. Just be careful not to become a follower. Friends aren't your real friends if they only acept you as someone who isn't YOU just to please them.

Seems to me like these girls aren't very independant either. This is the time in you life (happened to me too SAME THING) where girls change and some take the road to being a follower and others take the road to being a leader. BE A LEADER! Kormal is being a follower. If she wasn't a follwer, she wouldn't do this to you. She feels popularity is more important than what you two had, and that is very weak, and foolish. She needs to grow a spine and find herself. She should be who she wants to be, and if she expects you to change yourself to be her friend, you will be just as bad.

Answer 7

ok wow that was very descriptive and kinda got lost but i know exactly what you are going through. around 6th grade groups and clicks just start to form and sometimes you can get crushed in the process not knowing where you fit. I know you really want to be friends with this one girl it think it was komal?? well she is stuck in the popularity tower right now. she wants to be popular and thinks that her new friends are amazing to hang around with. I'm afraid to say this but you better have other grils that are your friends or be finding some soon because even though you are friends with komal you are definitely not friends with any of her other "populars" and i dont think you want to. seriously in the end it would just end up not good.

You either need to have a serious talk with your best friend because i can tell that you are about to lose your best friend. I know you probalby dont want to here any of this that i have to say but it is always better to not force a relationship. you will always remember the good times but there isnt going ot be very many more in the future. trust me with this. i went through the EXACT same thing and i had to go to counceling and my 6th grade year sucked so bad. luckily i had plenty of other friends that still liked hanging out with me and werent thinking about popularity. you do not want to go through what i had to go.

trust me you want your 6th grade year to be a good one. just try and find some other friends that want to treat you good. GOOD LUCK WILL BE CHEERING FOR YOU!!!

Answer 8

WOW... way to long i read everything but anyways!!!She's probably having a hard time at home and she does not fell like talking to you about it .or umm tell her how you fell and if she does not care move on ..i know that is hard iv lost 2 friends that i loved i moved on!!! but you will find other friends that are more open with you!! and thin you will laugh about this later there tons of other people out there
GOOD LUCK!!!!

Answer 9

Way to much drama for a 6th grader, and if my daughter who is your age had this much going on in her life she would definitly be grounded. You are to young to have this many issues and you need to just worry about school and being a kid and not all of this stuff. Enjoy your childhood. NOONE is worth all these tears, time heals all wounds and this to shall pass. Where is your parents at that you have to chat online and not talk to them about these issues?

Answer 10

Honey take a deep breath and keep breathing. This is not the saddest day of your life when that comes you will not be able to post here at all. you will live and go on to have a happy life so keep your chin up and stop crying. the love of my life died a short time ago. If I can stop crying , you can.

Answer 11

Well...i know how that feels....what you have to do is distance yourself from her slowly....beacause in the end if you dont most likely she will do it meanly....so you just need to get some new friends and tell your old best friend that you have decided yall will always be best friends at heart....but you need to make new friends with other people because yall have different opinions on things now....i hope i helped...