When I knew her in 8th grade, she used to call me 3/4 times a day and we'd talk for hours. When she moved to high school (10 miles away) she stopped calling. Now we are close again but she still never calls. (She only call to tell me to meet her outside) When I call her, she becomes irritated and gives attitude. (e.g. I ask her a question and she's like ''Úggh No god aren't you listening?'' Or if i tell her a problem on the phone she's like, ''Okay whatever. God that's so stupid.'') And usually she would hang up after three minutes. The thing is, when her other friends call her, she acts totally different. With her other friends, shes's very nice and patient and never gets irritated. With me, when I call her, she gets irritated and mad and annoyed. Like, '''Whatever I gotta go,'' in an annoyed way. She told me that she doesn't like talking to me on the phone but why when she used to. Also, does that warrant her giving me attitude whenever I call her?
2006-11-18 12:18:18 · 10 answers · asked by Trinity 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
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2006-11-18 12:19:47 · answer #1 · answered by treecomputer123 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop calling her. If she is a true friend she will call you in a day or so and want to know why you haven't called her. Then you tell her that you decided that since it was such a chore for her to talk to you before that you decided to just let her call you if she wanted to talk and you wouldn't feel like you were annoying her. If she is a true friend she will realize how she made you feel and she will start calling you a lot more and she wont take you for granted as much.
Sometimes when people have known each other for a long time they can kind of get bored with each other. If you give it a break for a while ya'll will be back to calling each other everyday in no time. I have been friends with a girl that I went to school with for now 14 years and we have our vacations away from each other for a couple of days sometimes and we are back on the phone within a week talking like we haven't heard from each other in years. My husband hates it LOL.
2006-11-18 20:24:52 · answer #2 · answered by April C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry and you probably don't want to hear this but. This girl doesn't like you! She's quite the b*i*t*c*h and doesn't care about you. She isn't the person you should be going to for advice either. I don't know why she's suddenly turned off, but I suggest you just let it go. Don't be a clingy follower. Be independant. I'm sure you'll do just fine out there in the world.
Go find some real friends who care.
About 15 minutes ago I was talking to this girl who can get in bad mood and can get b*i*t*c*h*y. I'm like "Hey whats up?" "Nothing" "So I heard Joe Shmoe's going out with you-know-who again..." "Okay"
After that I paused and thought "okay she doesn't give a flying s*h*i*t" So I said "okay cya" and put up an away message. I didn't even give her time to respond but she sent "bye." Proving she doesn't care. I do I care that she doesn't care? No. And you shouldn't either. What I did up there...thats all it takes!
2006-11-18 20:27:02 · answer #3 · answered by Ali 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like she's bored by what u talk about. She probably think u dont have anything of interest to talk to her about which is why she has such an attitude.U might as well not call the heffa anymore because she's just a ***** over the phone. Just be her friend and not talk on the phone
2006-11-18 20:24:17 · answer #4 · answered by yogurlmsbunny 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I went through this when I started high school. You have to understand that once you reach that point in life, things are going to change. You're going to meet people that you relate to the most, and that usually causes friends to slowly fade apart. They don't mean to. It's nothing against you, personally. Your friend is probably trying to find herself. Give her time. Don't rush things. Try finding new friends to hang out with. High school is a good time to figure out where you stand.
2006-11-18 20:21:42 · answer #5 · answered by Holly W 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmm...this seems a bit to crazy but maybe you should just keep it as just talking and chillin in person you know, she's just not into the phone conversation with you, maybe its old for her, and if yall are freshmans then yeah close friendships start to change a bit more...since OMG its highschool!!!so give it some time and dont get too over crazy about her not wanting to talk to you on the phone cuz its not that big of a deal, well according to my point of view.
2006-11-18 20:31:20 · answer #6 · answered by Lizzie101 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude people grow up and that just the way it is. My best advice is to tell her what you just told me through this question and tell her you don't appreciate her rudeness and all the other crap she gives you. I really don' know what else to say I'm just a 15 year old sophomore but good luck with your problem!
2006-11-18 20:27:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you really want to be friends with someone who treats you this way? maybe she likes bossing you around or treating you like dirt. first why don't you calmly talk to her saying how you feel about this (calmly, don't point blame, don't get mad). if she doesn't care, drop her and go on to real friends. if you feel you don't have any other friends than her, get some. no one should treat anyone, but especially someone they claim is a friend like they are dirt. if she is purposely treating you this way and not caring how it makes you feel, she is not a friend. you can do lots better.
2006-11-18 20:36:13 · answer #8 · answered by falling leaves 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like a personal problem and your going to probably drink rat poison because that is the extent of your worth(sorry for overexagerating your worth is about a piece of dirt)
2006-11-18 20:21:38 · answer #9 · answered by Killing is fun 1 · 0⤊ 3⤋
I don't know email her instead maybe she's so tired of you calling her alot !!!!!! That's if you do!!!!
GOOD LUCK
2006-11-18 20:23:25 · answer #10 · answered by I luv my BF! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋