I just want to see if im the only one going through this. How are you coping and moving on?
2006-11-18 11:56:34 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Yes, I am. Tonight I'm coping by talking to strangers, listening to music (that he hated) and desperately trying to remember everything wrong with him and everything that was right in my life before he came into it... and then left. I'm also reminding myself that it all happens for a reason. What is meant to be will be, right. God must have something better planned for both of us. I think it's helping me to think that.
2006-11-18 14:27:35 · answer #1 · answered by luckyduck 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Breaking up takes a while, and it depends on the type of person you and how strong you are. Many people will try to tell you just forget about the person, but in reality its hard to just do so. You are human and it takes time. I'm a senior in college and I met this guy my sophomore year. Everything was going great and he was my first everything (I mean everything) and I was 19 years old. Turns out things didn't come out perfectly and I got really heartbroken. I'm still coping with the hurt, heartbreak and moving on.
What I would suggest that you do is let it out in the best way you can. Of course you're going to worry but thats part of the healing process. Try to occupy yourself in activities that will take up most of your time so that you will not think about it so much. Remember, when one door closes, then another will open. Right now you're probably thinking he's the only one in the world and there is no other. But that's just how you're feeling right now and you'll get better daily...
Be strong, and somebody will come along and cherish and love you more than any other has done in the past...
If you need anything, shoot me an email cause I know exactly how you feel...
Smile, smile, smile...:-)
2006-11-18 12:07:42 · answer #2 · answered by Toki*Doki 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm sure a lot of people are going through a "rough" breakup. if you're in stage 1 of the breakup, buy some ben and jerrys and watch the notebook. stage 2 is go out to a club dance and find a new hottie
2006-11-18 11:58:46 · answer #3 · answered by Kate 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not that rough now but it was at the time...I will be divorced in a month or so...it's hard to tell from the court system here...he and I are still friends but he does not live here anymore...it just takes time tho when it first happens you do not think in those terms...hang in there it will get better!
2006-11-18 11:59:41 · answer #4 · answered by tigerlily_catmom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its been tough. I actual have been attempting to maintain busy, yet you generally finally end up with time to think of approximately it and it by no ability rather leaves your suggestions. yet I actual have desperate to pass out and be as social as i will by way of fact to get previous it you're able to be around different people. this form you wont sense undesirable all of the time and a minimum of you wil have some distraction from it . time kills soreness, as perplexing as that's to have faith.
2016-10-22 08:07:26 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I am not but the best thing to do is get up and get out there and find another
2006-11-18 12:14:08 · answer #6 · answered by ▒Яenée▒ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No not me.I have been through one though.Keep positive and look to the future.
2006-11-18 13:00:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not right now, but I had one a few months ago. Meditation helped a lot.
Sorry you're hurting....I know it sucks.
2006-11-18 11:58:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the more you think about it the more rough it will be. just get over it the best you can.
2006-11-18 11:58:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋