READ THE WHOLE CONFUSING, BADLY-WRITTEN THING... and get ten points.
Okay, so i had this friend and she was like a REALLY good friend in 7th grade, and in 8th grade we were distant, but we still talked and stuff. So i was upset in 9th grade because she just totaly disbanded me and stuff and i DO have other friends but i still wished i was friends with her and so i put a hint that she wasn't talking to me and my other friend on my AIM profile. When she saw it and got realy mad i was very apologetic. This was two weeks ago and now i can't tell if shes mad at me or not and i know most people will just say well she must have made other friends and moved on but i don't want that to be the case. HOW CAN I GET MY BEST FRIEND BACK??
NOTE: she is not, was not, and never will be my girlfriend.
i am aware that i have done stupid things.
2006-11-18 10:50:24 · 11 answers · asked by itsALICE! 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Say you're sorry, and try to make her understand that you were just trying to get her back when you wrote that. If she's willing to be your friend again, hang out with her again, but don't try to force her to be your best friend again. If she's not, avoid her, and move on.
2006-11-18 12:04:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think u guys need to find out actually what r friends first. This is making me insane. My nerves r a rake over this stuff. Cause i have a friend and we have other friends and she wants to know is the other person actually a good friend.
2006-11-18 19:17:38 · answer #2 · answered by kimmi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im very sorry.but you got her mad by writing t these things about her.try to say sorry to her about what you did if she doesn't listen to you then that means she doesn't want to be friends with you.just forget about it and move on try to have another friend like her.good luck.
2006-11-18 18:57:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should really just talk with her about it...go for coffee or something...communicate. If you don't feel you can talk with her about your wanting a friendship and trying to see where she stands.....you should move on.....good luck!
2006-11-18 18:54:35 · answer #4 · answered by Amy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask her why shes mad at you when she tells you just say sorry can we be friends agian?
2006-11-18 18:54:34 · answer #5 · answered by Kara p 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's happening to me right now with my best-friend (not)
Well tell her i still want to be friends no-matter what.We can have other friends but that doesn't mean we don't have to be friends.Maybe that will work??
2006-11-18 18:55:21 · answer #6 · answered by くる. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would talk to her, and ask her if she still considers you her friend. If not, ask why...tell er that you miss her and that she was a great friend. Apologize for your mistake and ask her to reconsider being your friend.
2006-11-18 18:58:26 · answer #7 · answered by dee 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well i guess you can just make new friends....
i mean why can't you move on?
and if you see her again why don't you just say hi and if she doesn't answer,that means she is not ya friend.and if she does say something,it just come together or that means you have a chance of being friends with her...........thats the only thing i can think of.........
2006-11-18 18:56:11 · answer #8 · answered by Christy 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
sorry, but friendships like that are NEVER going to be like it was orginially. you need to just forget it, people move on to better things and the other party needs to just accept that. leave her alone, i know how annoying it can be to basically beg someone to be their best friend, LET IT GO!
2006-11-18 18:53:46 · answer #9 · answered by Missy 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe the questions your asking here you should be asking her.
2006-11-18 18:57:13 · answer #10 · answered by kneenipper 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋