this was his last chance and he got locked up again so the judge said that this was it so he may be in for 5-17 years if not 9 months and i havent told any of my family nor his
2006-11-18 10:19:56 · 15 answers · asked by dime2dafullest03 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
Seriously: Whats the question?
2006-11-18 10:22:03 · answer #1 · answered by ? 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, from your profile you are only 18. You are in nursing school so you must have somewhat of a head on your shoulders. Is the question whether to tell the parents? What to do with the baby? You have already lost one child, so this is not an easy question. I understand your father is ill and your mother is never there. How about the bf's parents, can you talk to them? Will they help you raise this little one? Sooo many questions, I'm sorry. You did not give us much to go on with the question. Personally, I know how hard nursing school is being a single mom, I did it. It is VERY hard and you and your child will have to sacrifice. BUT, I had my mother to help. I do not think you can do it alone. Can a friend help you? You need to tell both grandparents and see how they react and move on from there. That is what I would do. Good luck and always remember BABY COMES FIRST... If you do not want the baby, consider adoption, there are sooo many couples who can not have babies that would give your little one a great and loving home... I could never do that but it is a thought... I hope this helped...
2006-11-18 10:31:51 · answer #2 · answered by Karlee bug 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you have to decide do I want to raise this baby alone and hope someday to be a family or do I want to put it up for adoption, then if I want a new life I won't have any connection with the guy in lock up.
It's a hard decision but I would go with the adoption myself. I wouldn't want my child to know their father was a jailbird, he most likely doesn't care if he is doing stuff against the law all the time. Give yourself and the child a chance to begin a life without his baggage.
2006-11-18 10:26:49 · answer #3 · answered by Tapestry6 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
go on without him.
you say "his last chance" ...so he's been given prior warning before?
he has a problem you do NOT need,nor does his child deserve this problem
that baby will grow regardless of whether the father is there or not,do what is right for you and the baby
leave him and get professional help
2006-11-18 10:27:10 · answer #4 · answered by Duckie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pack your bags. Move out of state. Do not leave a forwarding address. Get on with your life. He will never be a good role model for your child. You cant count on him being there for you. Go back to school. Give yourself the gift of an education so you can support your child and not be a burden on society!
2006-11-18 10:26:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he royally screwed up. maybe not the father figure type that you want raising your child. Well, 17 years is a long time to sit and wait for a man. your choice if you want to move on or not. I'd say move on but, let your child see him while they grow up, just so there isn't any ugliness when he gets released.
2006-11-18 10:22:25 · answer #6 · answered by ♥ღαмαиdα♥ღ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are worried you can't provide for your baby because the father is in jail. you are wrong sounds to me you may be better off with out him. You can seek for help from your community and family and friends I wish you luck and do what is best for you and your baby you will be fine.
2006-11-18 10:37:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hopefully you have a job to take care of yourself and when the baby is born, go on with your life as it may be hard but it will get easier, might as well go ahead and tell your family and his so that they can help you out in any way good luck to you and your baby!!!
2006-11-18 10:24:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
join the club with the other unborn baby mothers who b/f are in jail. leave him alone, go about your life, take care of your child the best you can and most of all use a condom, hell use 2. it's hard taking care of a child all by yourself. good luck
2006-11-18 10:35:19 · answer #9 · answered by amethystlady2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be strong and raise your baby the best you can. you will probably get support from your family and depending on his you will get some in his absence. good luck
2006-11-18 10:24:11 · answer #10 · answered by wise1 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋