i'am 12 years and a boy ask me if i want to marry him i have from now till monday and today is saturday.....................
2006-11-18 10:17:48 · 15 answers · asked by Any 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You can't be "serious"! Just how old is this boy who wants to marry you? At "12" you shouldn't even be "dating", let alone thinking about "marriage"! Legally you are too young to get married so his "ultimatum" is irrelevant.
Marriage is something that two partners enter into when they are; emotionally; financially, chronologically, and spiritually ready and able to make such a commitment. To be "blunt", there's no way any "12" year old could possibility come close on any of these!
Go out with your friends, meet people, enjoy yourself. Stop trying to "grow up" so fast. You have "years" to go before you need to "worry" yourself with adult issues. Enjoy your youth, sometimes being the "adult" isn't nearly as much fun as it would seem when you're "12"!
All the best.
2006-11-18 10:43:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your 12 and want some advice. you just answered your own question right there. To start you don't know what responsibly both of you'll need to have, then how are both of you going to make a living. I know Mom and Dad don't approve of this neither do I and 99% of the world cause your too young. What you need to do is tell him no
because your too young and next time learn moe and read more on a subject with this much resposiblity beofre asking.
2006-11-18 18:24:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
(having trouble deciding if this is real or bogus)
Unless you live in an islamic country, you're far too young to legally get married. I'm assuming your admirer is in the same age range (if he's an adult, call the police) so it's most likely not that serious of an offer anyway.
Enjoy your life and think about marriage in, oh, about ten or twelve years.
2006-11-18 19:37:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure get married and be a grandma at 24. What the heck be a great grandma at 36.
2006-11-19 11:31:27 · answer #4 · answered by Bollingg1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your 12!?!?!? then no way are you ready, wait till your 18, and then maybe even longer. And if he is giving you a dead line then he isn't ready either. Marriage is a life time commitment to One person and requires much love an dpatience if he doens't have patients then he isn't for you.
2006-11-18 18:22:22 · answer #5 · answered by Jenni 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u have your whole life in front of u to know more people. let say u get marry and then later on in life u meet the guy but it will be 2 late cause your marry. slow your role and live life.
2006-11-18 18:20:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hahaha. What a silly boy. Tell him you have big plans for your life and marriage is a long way down the road!
2006-11-18 18:31:56 · answer #7 · answered by Wiser1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look him straight in the eye and say that you emotionally, physically, and FINANCIALLY, NOT ready to have his babies until you're 25 years old. (Say this even if you don't want a baby, this would just keep from proposing again.)
2006-11-18 18:22:39 · answer #8 · answered by Iileen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nobody with pigtails and pink sunglasses is ready to get married.
2006-11-18 18:27:09 · answer #9 · answered by Tara P 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmm.... Seems easy enough. Say no. Tell him to ask again in 6 years if he is serious.
2006-11-18 18:20:07 · answer #10 · answered by Bruthaman 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋