I have gone through several searches. yahoo 360 and myspace. turns out all the guys i looked under. were freakin gay! ARE THEY ANY DECENT SWEET (STRAIGHT) GUYS???? I'm not saying thwy have to be hott... but just straight........ someone hit me up! I'm bored single mom. 21 years old. just want some good friends to chat with....
2006-11-18 10:03:49 · 22 answers · asked by mercy me 4 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
They seem to be hotter to you because they are unattainable, you always want something more if you know you can't have it.
One time to straight female coworkers wanted me to take them to a gay bar that I frequented. While we were there, I noticed how much they commented on the looks of the gay men and asked them about it. One of the girls responded "It's like window shopping, you like to look at things that you can't have."
2006-11-18 10:38:34 · answer #1 · answered by χριστοφορος ▽ 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
The "hottest" guys are NOT all gay. The problem could be you are looking for the right guys in all the wrong places, or else you have your own definition of what "hot" is. Another possibility you have to consider is that perhaps the "right guys" are not too sure they want to hook up with a 21 year old woman who MIGHT be coming across as being more interested in chatting up guys than concentrating on taking care of her child. I'm not personally saying that about you, I'm just saying that it's possible you might, without realising it, be giving that impression, and when you say things like "someone hit me up! I'm bored..." it might not be too surprising if somebody might take it the wrong way.
2006-11-18 10:15:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well you are in trouble my friend. Straight man gay man and lesbian women we are all hot. You are intrested in straight man and without knowing yet in lesbians as well. The problem is that hot people love sex, is in our nature, we are hot, we have this energy, we know we are hot, we need erotic plesure more then spiritual plesure...probably when we get older we get over it.
So for you a hot straight guy is no good except to have sex, if you fall in love with him you are going to get hurt.
If you want to have sex go for it, hell get some bi or lesbian involved you will feel grate impowered and super satified.
If you want love, your bet is a 40-50 year old straight guy who screwd enouth who has a priority in his life to raise a family and who can put up with bulshiiiit....You give bulshhhhhit we all do, the other one has to be very strong to take it and still like you.
Once you find this guy try to keep it
Hope this helps....I know is hard but hang in there mama you will be happy.
2006-11-18 10:32:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You would probably have better luck finding someone at a singles bar. I know there are plenty of great straight guys out there. Maybe you can try eharmony.com or yahoo personals. They will ask you wen you create a profile what you are looking for.
2006-11-18 10:06:23 · answer #4 · answered by gc27858 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Gay guys like to keep up their appearance usually. Thats why most are hott.
But there are straight guys like that as well... Most are assholes, but theres some of us that are exceptions, not bad looking and nice as well.
2006-11-18 10:29:52 · answer #5 · answered by insanelaser20@sbcglobal.net 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Because in general straight men dont take care of themselves out of FEAR of being viewed as gay themselves. They stink of cigarettes and sweat, have dirty fingers, dirty teeth and poor language skills. None of those qualities are attractive. Wanna find a hot guy, get a gay guy who is in the closet. He will look and sound amazing, and cheat on you with men behind your back, but hey, at least when youre seen together people will comment on how hot he is.
2006-11-18 14:11:07 · answer #6 · answered by . S 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
CrackerJack, I have 20 hot, sweet straight friends that I will introduce you to as I have not a chance in hell with them! :)
Life is Ironic. I can't find any decent sweet hot gay guys. Where did they all go?
2006-11-18 10:08:38 · answer #7 · answered by SeattleBloke 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
*scratch my head* I know exactly what you mean!!!!! Grrrrrrrrrrr, It is aggravating that most of the hottest guys are gay. I've been wondering why for a while now, I can't understand what would make so many of them decide to go that way. It's sad for us women. No offense to anyone, I just like attractive men who are straight.
2006-11-18 10:07:32 · answer #8 · answered by JustCurous 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your one of those girls who believes all straight guys are ugly and stupid and all gay guys a beautiful with wonderful personalities. Be like most American women, keep sabotaging your outlook on men so you can pretend thats why you can't find a decent guy.
2006-11-18 13:39:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Its just perception.
Prize straight guys have got a woman on their arm
Prize gay guys don't have a woman on their and you think "ah ha!" only to find out his "firend" is more than a friend.
Keep looking, lot of good straight guys out there, in meantime find a gay guy to help you trap one (watch Bette Davis movies together and discover ways to get rid of competetion!).
2006-11-18 10:40:33 · answer #10 · answered by imaginary friend 5 · 5⤊ 1⤋