Can exes be "just friends"? I mean...can this really be possible? Could you deal with your spouse being friends with their ex???
2006-11-18 10:00:13 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
try asking them. If you can't trust their answer you shouldn't be together.
2006-11-18 13:10:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
From experience I would be really concerned about this, especially if they were being secretive. Perhaps it would be better to have a conversation with your spouse and their ex and see how they react to each other. Body actions can say a lot about the way two people feel about each other.
2006-11-18 10:07:15 · answer #2 · answered by HopeDasher 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My husband deals with his x all the time. They have 3 children together. I have no problem with them talking. I do have a problem when she tries to come on to him. She got married last year and has been trying to get with him. She goes thru the kids to try to cause disharmony in our home. Otherwise, I tolerate and try to have a friendship as much as possible with her because she will be there in our life until our last child turns 18. Ultimately it depends on you and your relationship and how it is going and how the x left your spouse. Take care and good luck
2006-11-18 10:06:28 · answer #3 · answered by Red 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I don't know girl, that's a tough one. Because they have history together. Although it is very possible for exes to be friends but I just don't know.
2006-11-18 10:11:07 · answer #4 · answered by D 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
NO not really. You need to watch out because people cannot stand other people being happy especially if they think they're the ones who should be in your place. Tell your hubby how you feel.
2006-11-18 11:00:59 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nothing. I was the one he married after all. Once we saw his ex and we were both sponsors in a church wedding. They talk cordially to each other and I was the one pushing him to talk to her.I would be more concerned with his young flirtious lady friends. Nowadays successful married men are the target of young girls.
2006-11-18 10:24:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
if they started off as friends it is possible, but it can be risky if there is still an attraction. did they break up because they were good as friends and bad as lovers? regardless keep an eye out, they broke up for a reason but if there is still attraction best to stay away.
2006-11-18 10:07:45 · answer #7 · answered by d☻min☺ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sure ex's can be friends. My ex and I are. People are going to think what they're going to think but it's what we know that counts.
2006-11-18 10:28:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, they may just be friends. However, if he has a female friend, he should invite her to the house or meet her for dinner with you in tow. He shouldn't go out with her alone. And, frankly, you should be his BEST friend. If not, you may have a problem.
2006-11-18 10:29:31 · answer #9 · answered by Wiser1 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'd be pissed. Then curious. Then pissed again. Of course, I would expect to have some say in the naming so this would not be a problem.
2016-05-22 01:35:26 · answer #10 · answered by Carmen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would think that's it normal if they are just friends. I am friends with my ex's and that's all we are.
2006-11-18 10:01:58 · answer #11 · answered by Justsyd 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋