Ever since I can remember I have found both women and transgendered women very attractive. Does engaging these kind of women in sexual activity, as a top , make me gay. I have no attraction to men but am drawn to these types of women.
2006-11-18 09:59:47 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
unless the fact they have a penis is what excites you then no your not gay, in your mind you are attracted to what appears on the surface to be a beautiful woman
2006-11-20 01:25:40 · answer #1 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, it doesn't make you 'gay'. Trans Women, typically don't view themselves as men at all, but instead as either trans, or just a woman. I know many trans friends both men and women who would be insulted if you said that you were gay because you liked a trans woman. And it doesn't make you odd either. Plus you didnt really say whether or not it was post or pre op. If it was pre op and they were already on hormones and were 'female' appearing, it would be the same as sleeping with them except what they had between their legs, but if you like anal with biological women, its the exact same thing.
2006-11-18 10:20:59 · answer #2 · answered by insanelaser20@sbcglobal.net 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a good question, in one aspect yes but in another no. It all depends on how philosophical you want to be. But if you are sure that you don't like men then you are not gay. You like women but are just attracted to transgendered women because they look like women, I am sure there is nothing else in it.
2006-11-18 10:06:01 · answer #3 · answered by Vulcan Chic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude this does not make you gay. You are already gay. You are also bi and straight. We are all gay and straight. There is nothing wrong to be gay. If you think beeing gay is wrong for you then having sex with trans does not make you gay. you are not gay.
You don't have a problem mate you are perfectly all right. Do what ever you want ....what ever makes you happy. Society some how became in this way that we humanity invented names like gay, lesbian, bi and straight because we are unsure of ourselfs becouse of the need to imediate answers to our bigger qwestion ...how to be happy and how to live toghethere in this whole world?
You see my friend society screud your had so much that actualy you think having sex with a trans is wrong.....but then how come is feeeels so gooooood?
Do it man go outhere and get what you want...get it. Be happy ....dont get any desise though..that is defenelty not cool. protect yourself.
2006-11-18 10:10:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you should not worry about the title and what that may or may not mean to everyone else. You are just attracted to who you are attracted to. Dont worry just roll with it.
2006-11-18 12:38:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm transgendered but Live "in the middle"
2016-03-29 00:53:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it doesn't. If it is what turns you on - go and enjoy.
Gay, lesbian or trans-gender, it really should be your
personal choice and nobody has the right to judge
by your sexuality.
2006-11-18 10:15:33 · answer #7 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its a difficult one. i don't think so because in theory "shemales" are now women who just happen to have a penis. im in the same situation, but you cant help what turns you on although it can be a difficult one to explain to gfs or whatever.
2006-11-18 10:04:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not necessarily. It's really just a different kind of woman....And really does there have to be a label?...Love is love.
2006-11-18 16:34:12 · answer #9 · answered by evemarkra 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it just means you can see a woman as a woman. even if she use to be a male
2006-11-18 10:20:34 · answer #10 · answered by Chris 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋