Hey guys, ummhmm.. well you see there is this girl named courtney and up untill last year we would hang out alot like ever since we were real little. Well last year she stoped hanging out with me and she started hanging out w. people that hate me. Then we got into alot of fights. Finally we made up this year but we still didn't hang out. Now she is hanging out with this one girl named Jami that doesn like me and her sister, Sierra called me and was like...hey text me i need to tell u something ok?? i said why cant you jut tell me now... Then i heard Jami scream in the back ground"she wantd to tell you that im talking bout u!!" that just makes me mad that courtney, my ex best friend would hang out w. that girl that hates me and let that girl talk bout me... should i still talk to courtney??
2006-11-18 09:24:36 · 11 answers · asked by HoTtIe WiT a BoDy!! 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
i would confront her and tell her how you feel anout what she says and stuff.
2006-11-18 09:27:27 · answer #1 · answered by melissa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she clearly nsists in meeting people who hates you and obviously wont talk anything good about you, then i think that you should stay away from her. Sometimes people change, and i know its hard for you to understand how come a person who used to love you now can be so cruel with you, that happened to me last year too and she is still saying awful things about me. But you have to be mature, to grow up, and to accept that sometimes things are not the way that we would like. Look for new friends, but this time, for real friends, people who really loves you. And forgive her for what shes doing, dont ever waste your time thinkink about doing something bad back. You are not like her, or like them.
God bless you.
2006-11-18 09:31:45 · answer #2 · answered by Shannella 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if jami is talking about you and your ex best friend is just not saying anything than she isn't really your friend. you should just ignare the both of them and start hanging out with real true friends and get on with your life. that way you will be happier just be a good person.
2006-11-18 09:49:49 · answer #3 · answered by cutie01 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope the relationship is over. Move on, well away from them. If they go around saying bad things about you, don't retaliate, just ignore them, don't let them see it bothers you (you can cry in private). They will leave you alone when they see they can not longer get you to react to them. Friends are not for life. We change, move in different directions, meet new people.
2006-11-18 09:30:31 · answer #4 · answered by fluffernut 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a friend just like that he talks to a guy that i hate and pisses me off but i still talk to him and hang out with him, but if you to had alot of fights and she can't talk to you right now and she has text u then if i was you i wouldn't talk to her because if she was still your friend she would tell u something right there and now instead of texting you. hope that helps ya.
2006-11-18 09:46:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I just went through something like that, only like 25 times worse! It was HORRIBLE! And my advice it just leave her be, there are better people who will treat you better, and are worth your friendship! Ever since she had done something really bad to ME she gets mad at me for every little thing, like saying "hi" and having a short convo with her ex boyfriend!*she has like15 ex boyfriends!* She is just bad news...
2006-11-18 09:34:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO you shouldn't that is just wrong a friend should stand up for you! She shouldn't have let Jami talk about you like that!
2006-11-18 09:28:43 · answer #7 · answered by =/ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to when she's behaving like that? That's not a true friend.
2006-11-18 09:26:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no - life's too short. Stick with people who treat you well.
2006-11-18 09:27:49 · answer #9 · answered by pinniethewooh 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no shes not a true freind
2006-11-18 10:07:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋