i'm really ready for one and i already wear camis and stuff but every single time I try I totally chicken out!!!
i'm almost 14 too.
2006-11-18 09:17:47 · 14 answers · asked by luna D 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Just take a deep breath and say "mom, can we go shopping, i think i need to buy a bra"
there's no other way except just saying it honey
2006-11-18 09:19:53 · answer #1 · answered by rchlbsxy2 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's no reason to be shy or embarrassed, she wears one, and she has already taken the first step with you, getting you the camis. It could be that she is just a little nervous about it too. If your too chicken to come right out and ask for a bra. Have her take you shopping for something else, and just sort of wonder into the lingerie section.
2006-11-18 12:17:52 · answer #2 · answered by knihelpu 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hon there is nothing to be embarrassed about. You are just maturing. It is a natural thing to do. Why would you be embarrassed? Don't you and your mom get along? Do you have a dad? Listen if you feel funny about discussing this then you need to ask for some money to go shopping. When they say, "what for"? just say some personal items to wear, don't worry, i would not embarrass you. I need around $25. Then go to a nice store and ask for help from someone who looks nice, and is friendly. They will be happy to help you. It is something that every girl has been through, and believe it or not some day it will feel good to be pampered. There is only one first time, and once it is out of the way, it is a cinch. Congratulations on one of your first steps toward adulthood!
2006-11-18 09:51:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't be embarrassed. Every girl goes through this and it's just a bra. Just take a deep breathe and tell her, "Mom, my friend's mom just took her to get a bra. She said she was old enough! I think I'm old enough too. And I'm ready for my first bra!!!" You'll tell her when you're readyand until then Good Luck.
2006-11-18 09:23:12 · answer #4 · answered by dAwN 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lol its alright, just next time you guys go shopping together once u past the bra section be like Ma i totally need one of these, these camis arent working for me anymore
2006-11-18 09:20:21 · answer #5 · answered by Sweetheart88 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay well I am 14 and if I ever needed a bra I would be like mom can you take me shopping because I need a bra. It is really that simple.
2006-11-18 09:22:04 · answer #6 · answered by jigglet92 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your mom has breasts as well , they are no big secret, ask her to take you shopping for the first time so you get a proper fit. You are a young adult there a re a lot of adult things your mom is going to have to talk to you about.remember the more you know the better you understand. Go and talk to her now
2006-11-18 09:34:27 · answer #7 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't be embarassed at all, every woman wears them. Just tell her you need her to take you shopping for new undies and browse them, she'll probably get the hint and help you pick some that are right for you.
2006-11-18 09:20:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, maybe you should slip her a note saying like mom i think its time i get a bra. or soemthing. shell never know if you dont tell her what you want. she probably doesnt want you to grow up. if that doesnt work, then ask a older sister or some family member who you are close too.
good luck.
2006-11-18 09:20:53 · answer #9 · answered by sweetheart--xo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just do it. I can't say I had to do it, my mom just got me one. But don't be embarrassed. Every woman in the world has had to go through it. Just wait until you get to tampons...
2006-11-18 09:20:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋